As stated in the title, I'm a 38 year old man looking for someone to fulfill some wide ranging sexual and kink based desires and needs. While single woman is perhaps my ideal I am not at all against a woman in a relationship...though in that case I'm not looking to be terribly restricted in what we might be allowed to do. I just would rather find a situation where I have more freedom of movement, as it were. Couples welcome, of course the assumption there being that both are submissive.
Let me first say I'm not really looking to..."take care" of anybody. I have people in my life I already do a lot of caring for and about. I'm certainly not looking for anything romantic or even leaning in that direction or anyone who is too clingy for attention. I have far too much to deal with in that area as it is. Similarly if there is a lot of insecurity or other things that legitimately require dealing with I likely just won't have the bandwidth or desire to take on that responsibility. That does not mean there isn't going to be plenty of communication and such, I'm just not looking to do a lot of heaving lifting in that area at this point in life.
What I am looking for is someone that hopefully slots into my schedule and life easily, who wants to give up control in...well a wide variety of areas of her life that can be discussed and worked out. A sexual play thing and creature I can explore and use like a toy to fulfill my own sadistic and perverse desires. A person I can corrupt and shape into a creature that is as close to my "ideal" as can be reached given the raw material I have to work with.
As far as kinks go...I've got a lot of them and honestly I would hope for as much freedom as possible to explore. I recognize that some things are a journey, of course, but if relatively simple things like anal sex or any humiliation or any pain are things that you simply cannot stand we will not be a good match. I'm...honestly looking to get perverse and do as much corruption as possible to whomever I can. I want the woman that goes in to be a dramatically different creature from the whore that comes out the other side. Bonus points of you're down for themes of general misogyny and heavily objectifying treatment.
If this sounds good to you, please keep in mind I will want verification at some point and I'm willing to do the same. I also honestly cannot see this working for me without there being plenty of sharing of your body privately via whatever media. It's just something I crave.
Please do not contact me if you're a "wannabe cuck" or a husband who otherwise hasn't so much as talked to his wife about this. I'm not looking to spend a lot of time walking you through convincing her. I'm looking for people ready to actually start working at something.
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