Hello everyone! I'm on the lookout for the next relationship in my life so I figured this might be a good place to start.

I'm an experienced, talkative, intelligent, and social switch looking for someone local or in place easy to fisted from where I live. Someone who loves to talk bout their passions, enjoys physical touch as a love language, and is someone looking to build a relationship with someone new.

The details.

I am a rather tall guy standing at 6'1" and I'm 29. I have darker brown/black hair and often can be found with a neatly kept beard. I'm a pretty active guy and usually weigh in about 190-200 lbs. I have recently not been keeping up with my usual gym visits due to some life changes, and would love to find someone who would challenge me to get back at it. I have rich green eyes that I've always imagined Harry Potter's eye would look similar too haha. I also am covered in freckles because I love being outside in the sun. Some pictures for reference my Face, me at a friends wedding, and a recent picture.

My interests: I've always been an avid reader loving fantasy and sci-fi novels. Some of my favorites include the Wheel of Time series and the Malazan Books of the Fallen. Lately tho I've really been getting into eastern stories which I usually read translated into English. Light novels are very entertaining and often I enjoy them more than the actual manga or manhwa that adapt them. I also am heavily into board games of various sorts with DnD and Warhammer 40k my two addictions haha. My entire basement is tricked out. Deck building games as well as any sort of strategy games are probably some of my favorites as well.

Another important part of me are my friends, they are some of the most important aspects of my life as I've always lived off social interaction. I love going out to concerts, bars, or other events. My friends and I even play a yearly trip together to catch up with everyone who has moved away or doesn't live in town anymore. Any excuse to spend some time with my friends is always going to be a good day. Sometimes however, I really do feel like being a loner for a few days after too much interaction.

I have many more interests and passions but lets talk about those later as really getting to know someone is half the fun right?

My desires

I'm on the lookout for someone to be myself with. The good, the bad, the annoying, all of it. I've been in kinky relationships and vanilla ones before and I'm currently wanting to find a more kink filled one than my last relationship. I want someone who can be my best friend and someone I can feel extremely close to. I want you to challenge me to be a better person and feel that I inspire the same in you.

My ideal match would be someone intelligent, social, outgoing, interesting, and honest. I want someone with goals and the drive to meet those goals. Someone who takes care of themselves and who loves to explore, go on adventures, and try new things.

The fun stuff 😈

When it comes to kink I've always been a fan of always trying something once to truly discover what you may or may not be into. Hell sometimes its taken 3 or 4 times trying something to truly decide.

I've been an active member of the local kink community here in town for around 5 years now going to events, doing scenes, and learning new skills. I've not found my person yet tho, but I have met many dear friends along the way. When it comes to kink in general I've been active for much longer. I've stumbled through a variety of kink related relationships both with their ups and their downs. Labels and dynamics are something I enjoy but feel are something that should develop naturally instead of trying to force oneself into some role you think you partner would like you to fill. Communication is key, and I do love to talk.

When it comes to actual kinks I have many, enough to talk at length about honestly so I'll just share a few now in order to leave some to that getting to know stage that I so much enjoy.

Bondage - I love bondage in oh so many forms, and truly enjoy it from both ends. Something about just being at the mercy of your partner is so enticing and so is the reverse, having them at your mercy is so subtlety sweet.

Impact - I do love a good impact scene as it really ticks the sadist box inside of me, the whole warming up period into a nice scene followed by some nice after-care is so enjoyable in all of its detail. Usually I find myself topping and would definitely say I have a preference there.

Tease & Denial - There is something just so sweet about the sexual tension that builds up between partners who love to tease one another. A caress here, a whisper there, a frim grope in between. I love sexual tension, I want to always feel that want and desire that is thick enough to cut with a knife. When we get home I want to feel that I need to rip your clothes off and ravish you, and I hope that lust is something you also feel.

Dominance and Submission - Both of these are important to me, I enjoy the feelings of power over someone when they willing give up their power to me. At the same time however, sometimes it feels oh so wonderfully to relinquish that power and return even more. When it comes to the more dom related side of things I have much more experience. I enjoy doing dom related things that please my partner as their pleasure turns me on so much. At the same time things like rules, protocols, honorifics, and similar things excite me.

I enjoy discovering exactly what my partner enjoys. Honestly I am very much a pleaser/pleasure dom and my submissive side also reflects that. When it comes that that sub side of me, I've always enjoyed the gentler side of things. I like knowing that I'm my partner's and that they are mine. I also enjoy things that may seem like a challenge to me. But lets go more in-depth with these things later or ill be here typing away all day.

Honorable mentions - Shibari, erotic hypnosis, sensation play, orgasm control/edging, some humiliation/degradation, praise, service and so much more.

Limits: I feel limits are something to be talked about between two people, and usually on the case by case basis. People change their feelings towards thing easily.

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Thanks for your time! If you find me, and this massive post interesting at all shoot me a message! I rarely talk to people online as I have a preference to meeting people in person. So I would appreciate messages with photos attached. SFW photos until we start messaging please. I want to get to know you, not your body at the start.