Have you ever craved giving up control in a safe, consensual environment, to a person who will deliver pain in a controlled manner while you let go of material worries and plunge yourself into your desires?
I enjoy the opposite end of that spectrum. In a safe, trusting and consensual environment, I enjoy taking away choice and delivering pain in a way I choose fit such that it matches your needs. This normally manifests itself through breath play, slapping, spanking, orgasm denial and control, sensory deprivation, free use, safe cnc and many other ways. None of the kinks need to necessarily included in the dynamic, I find acts if submission attractive in general.
About me : I am a professional living in downtown Toronto with my own personal space, so I can host. I'm 5'9, with some dad bod but fit, and brown. I enjoy a host of hobbies including martial arts, board games and sports. In personal life though, Domination and Sadism are an integral part of me and i wish to find a partner who understands me and allows me to grow while meeting her needs as well.
What I am looking for : I'm looking for someone who can grow with me as a submissive/ masochist. I'd prefer meeting over coffee to first see if we get along. If we proceed, we can set clear limits, rules and safe words. I am not picky about physical attributes, what matters is your attitude, both in normal life and kink. I prefer someone who is openly communicative, and does not hesitate to reveal problems, rather than keep it to themselves. Ultimately, I'm looking for someone who starts out as a play partner. If this progresses to something more serious, I'm open to that.
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