Hi everyone! As the title suggests, I am looking for a potentially long-term dom/sub, master/sub dynamics with kinks including degradation, humiliation, dehuminasation, pet play, and more.

I used to be in a long-term online dynamic (video calls) due to long distance, and eventually we managed to meet and had a few irl sessions. outside of kinks, we just talked as friends.

Though I am a bit experienced in a bdsm dynamic and bdsm play, I am still inexperienced sexually. I just don't get turn on if I am not in subspace or do not have any connections to you. For example, dick pics turn me off really, but eventually with my previous dom, by the time we had irl sessions (the trust has been built), I was head over heels with it (and it was my first sexual experiences, too!). Hence, I would prefer someone who are patient and would take things slow sexually. Once in subspace, I am eager to please.

Limits: stretching, blood, gore, ageplay, ddlg, scat, illegal, permanent damages, cheating men...

About me: Though my main kink is being degraded and humiliated, I fucking love myself. I am educated, kind, confident, and quirky. Respect, communication, and transparency is important to me. Safety is the most important of all. I trust my gut. It's important for you to differentiate between my real life personality and subspace persona.

Though I couldn't really care less of what you look like, I would prefer you to be educated, have a career. Be respectful, and simply just a decent human being.

The thing why i don't like sharing about my looks is that I don't you to just think of sex - I don't really want someone who just wants to have sex with me - I want someone for bdsm, then sex comes naturally in that space. But here's a brief description: 5'3 95lbs and south east asian. im more the innocent, sweet looking type.