Welcome! Thank you for clicking on my add, hopefully you'll like what you see and want to message me.

I'm looking for a girl who wants to belong to someone, but isn't afraid to take the time to build towards that, and slowly develop the trust required. I would like to start online with the potential to meet up if we connect well, kink is great online, but in person is amazing!

I'm a fun and outgoing woman who enjoys being around my friends and family, whether that's at a large party or a small coffee date. I love going out to new restaurants and absolutely adore cooking at home too. I like to eat great food and happy to share the experience. Traveling is something I've loved doing and I look forward to visiting more places soon. I'm happy to come to visit you as well as hopefully have you come to me.

I love reading, romance, fantasy, pretty much everything besides horror. I like to play board games and a lot of D&D. I can talk for hours about D&D. I'm more of a reader than a TV or film fan, but I do sometimes get caught up in a series and binge it. I'd love to have a vanilla "date" where we watch something together.

I keep active and exercise and I eat healthily (most of the time). I enjoy dancing and climbing and hiking in nature. I'd love for you to also be someone who is at least interested in being active so we have something to discuss as well as potentially go somewhere together.

As a Domme, I'm looking for a sub or a switch who is willing to sub. I've had a few subs, and I have experience online and in person. I love to learn and experiment and I seem to constantly be finding new kinks that interest me. So if you have a slightly niche one, I'm always interested in hearing more.

My top kinks include shibari, impact play, sensory deprivation play, wax play, exhibitionism, anal play and orgasm control. While I'm not looking for a 24/7 TPE relationship, a little bit of lifestyle control and micromanagement can also be fun to incorporate.

Hard limits: Scat, permanent marks/damage, anything illegal, ghosting.

I'm ideally looking for someone who wants to be friends as well as be in a dynamic. Someone close to me in age, and life stage. I need someone who is comfortable knowing that as I already have a nesting partner as I am poly I'm looking for long term commitment, but not looking to move in together. We can meet up, and visit somewhat regularly, depending on your location, and talk every day, play lots, but that's all.

I'm not looking to play straight away. I want to get to know you, talk, see if we click as people outside of kink before we bring that dimension in. However, a conversation about expectations and limits etc fairly early, would be good, just to check that we are compatible.

I'm happy to verify after a couple of messages, if we click, and then move to a different platform. This is something I'd have to insist on. I want to be able to see you and have video calls etc, share pictures about our day etc, and that isn't possible if you aren't willing to show your face.

I'd love to get some messages, if you think we have something in common, even if you don't exactly fit my criteria. Sometimes the best things in life are the things we weren't expecting. The 1 thing I won't budge on is the poly aspect, they won't be involved in our relationship, but they are a big part of my life.