Only message me if you are willing to travel/meet in person and eventually relocate to Atlanta if you are not here already. I am willing to help with logistics if necessary (yes that means I’ll pay for your travel if you cannot afford it, but I have to like you). I am not going to chat endlessly because you’re shy and want to take it slow. We can take it slow… in person. I am not interested in ANY online play. Please only message me only if you are serious about getting to know each other. If you’re not interested in what I’m seeking, don’t waste my time.

I’ll still probably get stupid messages, but there’s the deal.

I am looking for a long term relationship, ideally marriage eventually with a sub or sub leaning switch. My kinks are orgasm denial/control, spanking/impact play, objectification, humiliation, latex, bondage, service, and lots more. Ideally you share most of these and have some of your own. I’m very open minded and view kink as a fun activity, not a serious lifestyle dynamic. It’s fun to play out “24/7” for a short time, but I’m not looking to micromanage your life for extended periods of time.

Me: Outside of kink, Im a big nerd. I love video games, some anime, coding. I’m a software engineer and have been quite successful with it. I also enjoy the outdoors on occasion, especially cycling. I also shoot pool quite often. I’m looking for someone to be more than a sub, to share life with and enjoy each others company. Dating me is not hard, I’m a very reasonable and grounded person.

You: Enjoy nerdy things and also have a desire to explore the world. Have goals and aspirations. Willing to live in Atlanta (not the burbs… Atlanta the city). Want to build a life together.

Im a pretty easy going guy and I feel that I have a lot to offer in a relationship. Im not very picky on looks and I care much more about what’s going on in your head and how you conduct yourself. If you send me a message, help me get an idea of who you are, don’t just send “hey, I want Dom”. If I feel you are not engaged in the convo, I will just drop it. Takes both people to converse and I’m far too busy to force a conversation out of you.

If this interests you, I hope to hear from you soon!