About me: Australian. Married/no kids yet. Polyamorous (polyfidelity). 5,7". Dyed hair (originally brunette now blonde). Hazel eyes. piercings. Dominant woman.
About Husband: British. Age 29. Married/no kids yet. Polyamorous (polyfidelity). 6,0". Brown hair. Hazel eyes. Switch man.
What I'm looking for: a female sub aged between 18-35. Hopefully long-term relationship with you joining my husband and I in a polyfidelity relationship, or if not at least a good friendship by the end of it. I don't mind if you have kids already as well or if you just want an online long-distance relationship to begin with. I want/need someone with complete transparency with, someone who will delete or stop talking to people I ask just as I will for you if it makes you uncomfortable. I also want someone who talks every day. I'm big on trust and respect, I hope you are too.
Don't message if you are just looking to get off and nothing else. The first thing we will do is establish trust and see if we work together like any relationship should. A safe word is a must - we will make one between just us when we are ready. I want you to listen to me, but also know you can trust me to listen and take care of you too. Also, be aware that it is me as your only dom and my husband who you will be joining and need to get along with and get to know. If we get to the point of you being our girlfriend we are located in the UK so relocation may be something you will have to consider and would be happy to consider even living together with you and more.
Some things we may do together: I will help choose nice outfits for you to wear on some days. Travel together and take you nice places with me and even fuck you somewhere you've always dreamed of doing it or even stay home in comfort together all day doing things together. Have you bow down and worship me or sit on my lap and makeout or cuddle. Give you tasks to do (sfw and nsfw). Get you a personalised collar/necklace/chain or ring. Sex toys or games. Vanilla relationship stuff: the works including gaming together, go out together, cuddling, kissing etc.
Pros: Dating us, you'll get someone who will never intentionally ignore your messages. Someone who will understand you and listen to your request to see if we match up, not drag you along if we don't. Protective. Into gaming, reading, writing, music, going new places and trying new things or foods, staying home in bed watching shows and movies.
Cons: I'm not a big people person, if I don't like them I won't put up with them, and I don't often like many people so if I like you best believe I like you lol. Gets anxious too, I am human after all.
What you need: 1. Be a female or equivalent. 2. Be open to start talking online first via snapchat, discord or tiktok Idm, to get to know each other. 3. Be understanding that I want you to be loyal to only me (and my husband and maybe other girlfriends we choose to date together) you will be my sub and mine alone if you can't do that this ad isn't for you. 4. No arguments, pranks, or disrespecting the others in our relationship if you choose to be involved with them too. 5. Ability to be transparent with how you feel and what you want and communicate well. 6. Preferred newbies/ virgins/ less experienced but fully consenting, or it won't happen. 7. Quiet/shy friendly person. 8. Similar values and hobbies. 9. To message first and ask for my other social media like Discord or my favourite colour so I know you read my ad.
What we might do: My kinks and more info is listed on my profile, and I'm open to talking about yours, but the main thing I want to try first is choosing your outfit to start off slow and see how you do after we became friends.
What we won't do: Full fur suits (but just accessories like bunny ears or black cat are fine)
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