Preface: BDSM is based on respect, trust, and communication. It takes time and mutual effort to develop these in quantities sufficient to do what I’m proposing. I’m in no hurry. I want a perfect fit for everyone and I’m willing to put in the effort to make it work.

I’m a older Dominant man that has been practicing rope bondage since 1985. I’ve traditionally been a sensual Dom but want to explore my sadistic side. I’m healthy, fit, attractive, and affluent. I’m Caucasian, 5’8”, 190lbs, black hair with a little gray, blue eyes, typically have a 5’o’clock shadow or more, well dressed and excellent hygiene. I’m well educated, sane, and happily married to a ridiculously amazing woman. We began as D/s 8 years ago and continue to this day. We are ENM and explored a Stag/vixen relationship for about 3 months. I found her buck after a multi year search. He was great and she enjoyed the play more than she expected. The scene has concluded but he remains our good friend. This search is for My play thing.

I seek an extremely (traditionally) attractive cis female in her 20’s, petite, who would like to dive into some intense play. I envision a 24/7 sub or slave scene that lasts a weekend to start and, hopefully, blossoms into a long weekend every couple of months. It would include bondage, impact, clamps, breath play, humiliation, degradation, objectification, and potentially forced bi.

We are 10-panel tested, multiple times. We will require the same for you. We use STDcheck.com That means no HIV Type 1 & 2, Herpes Type 1 & 2, Hepatitis A B & C, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, and Syphilis. Please Note: less than 30% of the population can completely pass this test. We can and have retested multiple times. This is absolutely non-negotiable!

If me flying to you for face to face conversation prior to play is one of your requirements, I’ll understand and comply. There would be NO play on that trip.

Let’s begin with conversation here and see if there is compatibility for all before we contemplate more?