Hey, thanks for clicking on my add, hopefully you'll find something in here that speaks to you enough you want to message me, even if this post is days (or even weeks) old.

I'm looking for a girl who craves being owned, and isn't afraid to work towards that, but also knows it takes time to build trust. I would like to start online with the potential to meet up if we connect well, some of my kinks are much better in person.

Vanilla Me: I'm an extrovert who enjoys being around friends and family, making connections and socialising. I love going out to new restaurants and exploring different cultures through food; trying interesting dishes is one of my favourite things to do. Traveling is something I've loved doing and I look forward to exploring more of our wide world.

I'm a bit of a nerd, but I don't play video games. If you're looking for someone to game online with, I'm not your girl. My tastes run to board games and primarily D&D. I can talk for hours about D&D. I enjoy reading, mostly fantasy/romance but I will try most things. I'm more of a reader than a TV/film buff, but I do enjoy occasionally working my way through something new. Definitely hit me with your recommendations.

I keep active and exercise and I eat healthily when I'm at home. I enjoy dancing and climbing and I've played team sports for years, thoroughly enjoying it. I'd love for you to also be someone who is at least interested in being active so we have something to discuss here.

Kinky Me: Domme, looking for a sub or a switch who is willing to sub. I've been in the community for a couple of years, with a few partners, both online and in person. I love to read more and learn more and I think it's important to continue my kink education, I wouldn't ever claim to be an expert in anything, I like to say I know enough to know how little I actually know.

My wants and needs change depending on the partner and dynamic so I'd prefer to go into more detail in messages. However, the key points are:

Main interests: Rope play, impact play, sensory deprivation play, wax play, exhibitionism, anal play. I enjoy orgasm control and lifestyle control if it works for our dynamic as well. I have had a pet play dynamic if that is something you are interested in.

Hard limits: Scat, permanent marks/damage, anything illegal. Lack of communication.

What I'm looking for: Someone who wants to be friends as well as be in a dynamic. Someone who is relatively close to me in age (although I don't want to put a number on it), as I feel like we're likely to have more in common. And someone who is comfortable knowing that as I already have a nesting partner, I'm looking for long term commitment, but not looking to move in together. Meeting up when available and scheduled online time is what I can give.

I'm not looking to jump straight into a dynamic either. I want to get to know you, talk, see if we click as people outside of kink before we bring that dimension in. But saying that, I would like to talk limits etc fairly early just to check that we are compatible.

I'm happy to verify after a couple of messages, if we click, and I would expect you to do the same. I would prefer this isn't an online only relationship so I would expect to see what you look like sooner rather than later anyway. I am also looking to move off Reddit if we hit it off.

I'd love to get a message, if something in my post speaks to you, even if you don't exactly fit my criteria. Sometimes the best things in life are the things we weren't expecting. The 1 thing I won't budge on is the poly aspect. Anyone messaging me needs to understand that I have other partners.