Hello! I’m a 33yr old submissive, been into BDSM and kink since 2008. I’m seeking a preferably experienced dominant male between the ages of 28-45 within one hour of the Providence RI area. Give or take a little on these desires.

I am willing to do the “online” thing as well, but will be reserved with pictures and personal information for a while.
If going the online route, I do need someone who is willing to have voice conversations at minimum a few times a week. I’m seeking someone who enjoys casual conversation and chatting about things other than just kink. It would be ideal if we are in the same time zone and/or you have a schedule that wouldn’t conflict with mine. I work M-F 8-5. I’m in the Eastern time zone.

Some of my biggest kinks are CNC, degradation, fisting/large toys, lite humiliation, impact play, choking, lite bondage, tease and denial.

I’m also into DDLG but not in a sexual way. …I like stuffies, and bed time stories and occasionally use little voice.
I also like bathroom control, I don’t want to have an accident but I like having to ask for permission to go, and occasionally being made to hold it.

I find that I jive best with Daddy Dom types, who can be gentle but also strict when needed.
Admittedly, I am a bratty submissive who has a knack for finding loopholes. While I am a brat, I still pride myself on doing a good job and pleasing my Dom. I know when and how to be serious and limit the bratting.

Ideally, I’d like to establish a dynamic with rules and daily routines agreed upon by both of us.

A bit about me outside of kink, I am plus size, close to SSBBW but not quite so big. I work as a Project Coordinator, and really enjoy my job. I do live with family so someone who can host would be ideal, but not a requirement. I like to dress up and go out to dinner, a comedy show, bar, but I also enjoy things like camping and fishing. Summer is my favorite season, I’d live at the beach if I could. Animal lover, and cat mom to two glorious floofs.

Looking forward to hearing from you!