Been lurking for a while 😸 testing the waters but here we go.

Im 30F of Nigerian descent, 5"4 thick curves (not slim), physically active with quite a few piercings and tattoo sleeve on my right arm (bodysuit in progress). ESFJ pretty much describes me 95% 😄

Living in London, looking for long term IRL and not into casual. I'm a private person and online just doesn't do it for me.

I've had a short intro to bdsm in one of my past relationships and felt like i could do without it. But lately I've been strongly yearning to submit and put myself in care of a soft Dom. I am inexperienced and this will be my first D/s dynamic so I need someone that'll patiently guide and nurture me. I don't want to be a 24/7 sub but would like a dynamic not limited to play and sprinkled with lots of vanilla activities 😆

I am looking for a single monogamous Dom within the ages of 30 to 40; non-smoker (cigs, vapes, 420) and no drugs. I'm fine with 420 as long as it's not smoked. Ideally based in London as I want to meet IRL but fine for the outskirts of London as long as meet-ups are comfortable for both of us. Minimum 4 years IRL experience. Please no extreme Doms. I prefer someone 5"10 and over, has their shit together and is fit/healthy (you don't have to be muscular, just be healthy). Im not too particular on looks as long as I'm attracted to you.

Non-kink me - My interests are arcade/vintage gaming (don't mind other gaming types), anime, manga, tv/movies, foreign languages TV & movies, reading (fantasy, sci fi, horror, erotica, crime), crime & nature documentaries, eclectic music taste (Sleep Token and Kamauu on repeat atm), gigs/concert, cinemas, museums and galleries ... and more.

Kink me - Im a very bratty sub and need someone that can handle my luscious self 🥰 I can't help it tbh. My interests are (but not limited to) role play, voyeurism, cnc, body worship (giving and receiving), rope play, restraints, impact play, praise kink (giving and receiving), orgasm control, nipple play. I'm quite curious and experimental so will try something once as long as it's not in my hard limits. My hard limits are age play, race play, blood, urine, scat, vomit, needles, knife, choking, breath play, humiliation, permanent scarring, fire, sharing/multiple partners, illegal activities.

Will ask for verification and do a video call so please don't reply if you're not willing to do this, then ideally want to connect IRL and progress from there. Will be keeping it vanilla till we've gotten to know each. I yearn to submit but my submission has to be earned. Open and honest communication please, let's respect each other's space.

If I've in any way piqued your interest, send me a chat introducing yourself (age, body type, what you do, kinks/limits and why you replied to my post) and I will answer any questions or provide more details 😊.