Hi! :) I’m hoping to connect with the woman who will one day become my partner. Specifically, I’m looking for long-term, and I’m looking for a BDSM dynamic. More below if I’ve piqued your interest!

I guess I should tell you about me, huh? :) I am:

• Detail-oriented. This is a plus for you, because I’ll make an effort to remember the little things like your favorite treat, your favorite color, etc.
• Gift-giving. By this, I mean that I’ll pick up small tokens that remind me of you and surprise you with them. I also enjoy planning outings catered to your interests.
• Sensitive. I pick up on fluctuations in tone, mood, etc., and I am cognizant of how my words may affect another person. I don’t do well with blunt people.
• Sometimes silly. I hope you like jokes, cuz I got lots of ‘em! Ask me for a free demo! :p
• Monogamous. I dislike sharing my partner.
• Adventurous. I’m down to try new things, travel to new places, and—this is kind of a tangent, but speaking of new things—I really enjoy being exposed to new perspectives.
• Childfree. I’m not interested in being a parent.
• Supportive. If you come to me with a problem, I will comfort you and try to solve the problem. I’m encouraging and can provide those good good words of affirmation.
• Communicative. I like to talk daily in various ways. I’m really into voice messages and calls.
• Physical. I’m like a Velcro human in that I always like to be touching my partner in some way. I’m also definitely sexual, so bring your sexy on. :p
• Protective. I will be mindful of your safety, and I’m pretty situationally-aware.
• Masculine. I’m occasionally mistaken for male while I’m out and about in public, if that gives you an idea. I like masculine titles such as ‘Sir’ and whatnot, as well.
• Anxious. I’ll need an understanding partner for this one. Someone who is willing to stick by me while I work toward getting my ducks in a row.
• Thankful. I say this because when a woman submits for/to me, I am grateful. Receiving submission pleases me in more than just a sexual way.

The dynamic I seek:

I’d love a relationship in which we can be silly with each other, spend time together (even if it means working on separate projects while hanging out in the same room), explore new things together, and be safe spaces for each other.

BDSM-wise, I’m looking for 24/7 TPE, and I kinda like the 1950’s (ish) vibe/style. I’d love interactions such as my girl preparing my coffee for me in the mornings, and I’d enjoy knowing that I could have the final say at any time. I think ownership is hot and I like the ideas of collars and symbolism.

The lady of my dreams is:

• Feminine. I love femininity. Oof, I really do.
• Sensitive. I need my partner to have and express emotions. This is important.
• Kind. This kind of (see what I did there?) connects back to the above point.
• Communicative. I like lots of communication. <3
• Submissive, of course. But happily submissive! I want her to want that role.
• 25 . Please don’t message me if you’re below this age, it’s just too much of an age gap for me. :(

Let’s start there. Send me a chat if you’re interested, I’d love to hear from you!