I'm looking for someone I can hopefully meet IRL at some point. Online is fine only for a little while, I'm not interested in an online-only relationship. So it's preferred that you live in the midwest, but not a strict requirement. Besides that what am I looking for? Well I like gentle-ish domination but not TOO gentle, not really into the soft nurturing "mommy" type! Some meanness is fun, just keep it mostly playful please. I can get into a lot of different things, mainly focused on worship, humiliation and servitude. I love independent, intelligent women. You should be at least reasonably in shape, and not a sadist. I love sharing pictures, video and audio and you should too. Text-only will make me bored. You must verify

Me, I'm a 36 year old guy from the midwest. 5'11", white, fit/thin build as I stay active, light body hair. I'm an INTP, which means I like thinking a lot and dislike making plans. I'm a current masters degree student in tech. I love anything to do with the water, like swimming and scuba diving, someday I'll probably live by the beach. I enjoy dancing. I have a casual interest in history and philosophy, I like bike riding when its warm, and getting absorbed in HBO/netflix/youtube of course(favorite recent show is White Lotus).

Some of my favorite things:

• anal
• orgasm control/denial
• servitude/slavery - love the idea of being a house slave. This would mostly be an IRL thing, I'm not about to be your online homework slave lol
• worship - looove ass worship. Pussy worship also, but basically any form of worship you want.

other things I like or are curious about but are more optional:

• bondage
• pet play - specifically the canine variety. collars, leashes, food and water bowls, and so on!
• feminization - I've only dipped my toes in it so far, but it's exciting
• piss play
• human furniture play
• forced bi maybe??

the main limits are: serious pain, findom, ageplay, scat, puke, blood, extreme insertions(fisting, sounding)

me: https://imgur.com/a/Ne0h0Fk