Hi! I'm a 23 year old transmasc femme non-binary pal (he/they type of person). I can pass in both directions if I so choose. I present male in most of my day to day life like at work and school. Looking for play mates, friends, people to go to museums with, long term partners. Casting a wide net with intention. Probably not looking for anything monogamous but that's not exactly off the table. I'm a vers switch but completely comfortable sticking to one role. I think I'm cutest as a subby bottom, though.

I live outside St. Paul, I work in Woodbury. I would like to move to NYC once I graduate next year but that's a bit away yet. I may stay in the Cities but I also like the other cool M cities like Milwaukee and Madison. Unopposed to eventually ending up between DC and Boston.

Physically: I'm 5'5, ~120, long bleached hair, blue eyes, tattoos and a piercing. Top surgery. Generally keep it low on body hair. Alt-ish when I dress up but I mostly dress like I only shop at the Gap (because that's true, outside of tees). I have a pic on my profile. I ask one also be in yours or part of the first few messages we exchange.

Things I'm interested in: pretty people and gorgeous things. Those adjectives look different on everyone but generally things like comfort in your own body, taking care of skin and hair, hwp, dressing like you have an awareness of what flatters you. Safe, sane, consensual.

And I do explicitly mean ANYONE! Cis pals, pre transition pals, in the middle of transing that gender pals, transitioned pals, femboys, tomboys, androgynous pals, experimenting pals, etc. I have a particular weakness for transwomen and femboys.

Age wise, I'm not too picky. Between 21 and 40 seems statistically likely to best get along with me but those number can flex.

About me: I love going to shows. Concerts the most: I like Dr Dog and WSTR and Two Door Cinema Club and The Dead (&co). Recently theater wise I've seen A Doll's House, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, and Hamlet. My favorite activity is rolling up to the rush booth and getting up to trouble.

I also enjoy the museums. I like the Met, MoMA, the Brooklyn Museum, MIA, the Walker Art Center. I've gone back to school for computer science after finishing a writing degree. Haven't decided if I'm going to apply for a masters come fall. I like gin and urban walks and petting dogs. I like Star Wars and LotR and TOS. I like baseball and hockey (that specific hockey scent turns me on so like, do with that what you will).

I wish I had time to read more but getting to the library just ain't a priority these days. I'm working on Euripides plays lately. I like scifi, fantasy, narrative nonfiction, art history, and science books. My favorite YA is Artemis Fowl. Other favs include Gaiman, JRRT, Herbert, OSC, Lemony Snicket, Uncle Riordan, etc. I also write short fiction and poetry.

Fun stuff: ropes, impact play, freeuse, cnc, machines and toys, size, fisting, maybe a little public play, other stuff in that ballpark. Up to negotiation and of course how comfy we feel with each other. Recognize that vanilla is also a complex and delicious flavor.

Please send me a message if any of that jives with you. Be a friend, a playmate, an errand buddy, something more, something less :)