Let's take this post in three parts, shall we?

To begin, my dream for a dynamic goes something like this: you have a soft heart and a firm hand. You manage to move within a spectrum between being a sensual caretaker and disciplinarian with ease. You have your own needs and limits are are respectful of your partners' in turn. Together, we have great communication that shows in the ways we can laugh and joke while talking about our days, or get serious when the moment calls for it. The dynamic is interwoven into our chats, with you having rules and expectations that go beyond, to help keep me accountable for things. You ask if I've finished my work for the day, and if I have, I get a reward. If not, you assign a suitable punishment (please make me stand in the corner, this really does it for me). This brings us both pleasure and security. Our dynamic is more than just sexual. You're not just in it for nudes, and I'm not just in it for material to fantasize about when touch myself. We both keep an open mind and are open to trying new things, and we grow together.

Here's what I bring to the table: A good sense of humor, clever conversation, a listening ear when you need one. I am plus sized and very tall, someone who moves through her life with confidence (and a bit of anxiety and other mental illnesses), so people are often surprised to find out I crave submission. I have one partner, but we don't engage in kink stuff together, and she's very open to me getting my needs met somewhere else. I'm a creative, passionate person, with a million hobbies, each nerdier than the last. Kink wise, I'm into bondage, impact play, degradation, name calling, pet play, discipline, and free use among other things.

Here's what I hope you are: Older than 30. Established in your life, with ambitions and goals. Willing to listen and compromise. Not so hung up on physical appearances that you don't care about personality at all. Experienced with bdsm beyond just kinky sex and orgasm denial. Adaptable and interesting, able to hold a conversation. A sexy older person who might like to be called Mommy/Daddy (not a deal breaker, but a girl can dream). I'm partial to women, but open to everyone.

This is already long enough, so I guess I'll end it there. Other things we can hash out in conversation. Ideally, we'll chat here until we're comfortable and then move to discord or something. I won't be sharing any pictures until you move on from 'random internet person' status, for my own safety.

So yeah, if you made it through all that, feel free to reach out!