Hi there! Are you the droid I’m looking for? God I am so sorry for that, I couldn’t resist.

I am a burnt out social worker looking to find someone that I can let go with. I am hoping for something that would develop in to a relationship of some kind, even if that is friends that regularly play.

about me: I am 28, a Virgo Sun, as I said above a social worker. I am married to a cis man, but we are poly. No kids, and will be staying that way. I enjoy reading (102 books last year), swimming, music, movies, prestige TV (I feel like an asshole just saying that), DnD, and some video games. I have four dogs and a cat, all rescued. I do a crossword or sudoku everyday and have been getting more into bird watching, yes I truly am that boring. I have tattoos and some piercings, bonus points if you can guess one (;

about you: I am not super picky on age, but do tend to prefer my age or older. I am not looking to be a side piece so if your partner doesn’t know you’re here, please go away. Location is important because I am very open to the idea of in person. A reasonable drive from Oklahoma is preferred. I am very left leaning, if that’s a dealbreaker then please see yourself out. What you do for work does not matter to me, but I do like people that are stable (stability and consistency, an overarching theme). Body type is not super important, but I love a dad bod. What is important, a great sense of humor. I love to laugh and have a good time, so someone that will laugh with me is crucial. Kink wise, I prefer people that are established in their communities and/or have been in the lifestyle for some time. I have never been with a woman in any style of kink relationship, but am absolutely open to it! I love kids, so if you have then that’s totally cool and don’t let my child free statement deter you.

about our dynamic: The biggest energy I need from a dominant is Daddy energy (Daddy energy can be had by any gender imo) as I enjoy the caretaking and the more gentle approach to domination that comes with that style. Ageplay is something that I find interesting to learn about, but it is not a kink of mine. I do like my dominant to have a sadistic side, physical and mental. I often find I am attracted to dominants that have a bit of primal tendencies, especially when they hold me down ;)

I am deeply submissive when I trust a partner and often joke I don’t have a dominant bone in my body. I like to obey and have only ever been punished twice in my entire kink life, which is about 10 years. I have very broad interests and generally am very open to trying things. I would be interested in exploring pet play with the right person, but it is something I am very new to.

I really enjoy consistent communication. It does not have to be constant, but consistency is key. Honestly, consistency is just a big thing in general I need from a dominant and a partner.

Kinks I am happy to get into after some discussion. Hard limits are incest, race play, purposeful blood, scat, purposeful vomit, and extreme stretching.

If you made it this far, kudos because this got long. Shoot me a message or chat with your favorite movie and let’s get to know each other.