I’ve been VERY lucky all of my life. I was born into significant privilege. I am deeply thankful and cognizant of these gifts but they also present unique challenges. Because I’ve lived my life with good looks, wealth, etc my tastes in partners is, well,….gourmet. (Sorry to objectify before we’ve even negotiated but I was at a loss for words.)

My wife is a great example. She modeled for Abercrombie&Fitch and also American Eagle back in college in national campaigns. She did some print ads for a local clothier this year and she’s 40 now. Beyond physical beauty, she wicked smart, cool as liquid hydrogen, and, my favorite, she speaks directly with no filter and no bullshit. Yes she knows I’m here. We’re monogamish. We’re lightly exploring polyamory. We have open communication and don’t keep secrets.

My ideal candidate would be younger and very attractive. Near Wilmington would be great but not absolutely required. She should lean submissive or slave. I really don’t care about experience level as both ends of that spectrum have benefits.

I’m in no hurry. It took us over 6 years to find our first play partner and it was worth the wait. Truth is there are not many people we’d want to share with. Us being picky should be an important positive sign for you, if you’re the right person that is. And no hurry applies to meeting and play. Let’s chat….extensively. Let’s see if everything is right? Let’s know EVERYTHING about each other before we meet. A thorough negotiation always makes for safe, fun, respectful, HOT scenes.

Here is my kink list from my FetLife profile: Into: affectionate domination (giving), bondage (giving), candualism (everything to do with it), collar and lead/leash (giving), cosplay (watching), cuddling (everything to do with it), discipline (giving), domination (giving), face fucking (giving), gangbangs (watching), humiliation (giving), intelligence (everything to do with it), manhandling (giving), prostate massage (receiving), rope bondage/suspension (giving), rough sex (giving), sexual objectification (giving), sharing (giving), showering together (everything to do with it), sleepy sex (giving), toys (giving), trust (everything to do with it), verbal humiliation and degradation (giving), waking up to oral sex (receiving), yes, sir. (receiving)

I’m straight, 5’8”, 190Lbs, black short hair with a touch of gray, blue eyes, healthy/fit, well educated, well groomed. I am a gentleman! And I’m a deviant hahaha. I treat everyone with respect. The only exception is role play and you can switch that off with a single word.

Let’s chat?