30 year old submissive male who is reaching out to this community in hopes to find a connection to discuss, explore, and expand on kinks revolving around chastity and femdom (details below). Open to IRL (a rare gem) or online. Even chatting about kinks and scenarios would be a fun way to explore these submissive desires but ideally a stable online or IRL dynamic would be even more fun.

About me:

Age: 30 year old male

Relationship status: single

Appearance: brown hair, hazel eyes, on the shorter side but with a fit build (pic available on request)

non-kink: I enjoy getting outdoors, hiking, camping, photography, plus the occasional netflix binge too. I have a busy job but stay active as much as possible.

Prior experience: 1 prior in person D/S dynamic that lasted about 1 year, ended mutually as they had to move away for school/work. 1 online relationship as well, not nearly as fun as the in-person one but was still great to explore fantasies through text and pictures/video

Kinks: Submission, femdom, chastity, cuckold, face-sitting, humiliation, free-use, pegging/anal play, JOI/CEI. Just a few of the major ones but open to many more

Looking for age: 18-45 (flexible)

An example I'd love to explore/chat about/role play is below. It's just a combination of how I think these kinks/wants/desires would play out but any single piece of it would be fun to explore with someone.

A beautiful goddess agrees to take me on as her sub, she strips me down and inspects her new property before smiling and taking out a cage. I can feel the last hope of an erection slip away as she slides the cage on and securely locks it in place. Eager with excitement I can feel myself strain in the cage. The next few days are tough as the newness of the kink and rush of excitement fade, reality starts to set in that she has control totally. As I go about my daily life, old habits prove to be a constant reminder of my devotion to her, an attempt to flirt with other women proves useless as I'm powerless over my own cock. Exciting myself only to face the fixed rigid walls of the cage is my recurring punishment. Eventually this frustration over my ability to please myself is finally funneled to the correct place, as a desire to please my goddess. Over the next weeks I become more proficient than ever licking her and pleasing her in anyway she asks, fueled by frustration but mentally relieved to be able to serve her.

Time continues to pass and my sentencing to the cage only continues to reinforce what I knew already, that my cock could never please her in a way that she needs. We try having me wear a strap-on something that would provide the size and stamina she deserves and requires. When that isn't enough for her she has a strap-on mold of her ex, adding some humiliation but still she wants more. She continues to use my eager tongue and body anyway she pleases but starts leaving me by myself more. She's dressing sexier than she ever would and going out. She sends pictures of the guys she's going out with, which turns into videos of her pleasing their large cocks and eventually them penetrating and satisfying her in a way I never could. I can only twitch in my cage, dreaming of enjoying her body the way they are but, knowing in the back of my mind, that I never will. I twitch in my cage hoping she returns and I would have the chance to clean and please her with my tongue.