Hello, and thank you for taking the time to read my personal ad! I will try to write this as short as possible, but it might be lengthy given that Iād like to find my future husband/Daddy Dom, haha. I donāt know if I will, but dating apps are failing me, so why not try Reddit? Below Iāll provide some information about me and what Iām looking for.
Hereās what I look like. Most of the photos were taken within the past year. https://imgur.com/a/foLpLoe
As for my non-kinky interests, I like a variety of stuff! Iām a homebody, and most of my hobbies are things I do at home. I really like playing on my Nintendo Switch, baking sweets, and watching Netflix, YouTube, etc. When Iām with my friends we like playing Mario Kart or board games, going out to eat, and watching movies together. Now that summer arrived, Iād like to do more outside. Currently, I go for walks while I listen to a podcast. I got a badminton set recently, and my friend and I are set to play a game soon, so Iām excited about that! I do some volunteer work at a history center too.
Now some of my kinks are DD/lg, 1950s dynamic, being a submissive, power exchanges, some humiliation, oral, anal, spanking, male-lead relationships, and breeding. My hard limits are anything dealing with scat, poly/sharing, blood, knives, electricity, wax, cow/hucow, pegging, choking, sissys, cucks, face slapping, furries, nipple torture, and body writing. This isnāt a complete list of what Iām into and not into, but I think it hits the main points.
Now, hereās where Iāll list what Iām looking for in a partner and why:
Be monogamous. Iām uninterested in joining a relationship or having someone else join my future relationship.
Be a Dominant. Iām not Dominant or a switch. I have no desire to fulfill those types of roles.
Donāt smoke, donāt do drugs, donāt have STDs/STIs, or drink a lot. I donāt smoke, donāt do drugs, donāt have any STDs or STIs and I rarely drink. I donāt mind if you do sometimes, but I grew up around alcoholics so Iām a bit weird with alcohol.
Be able to act like an adult and do adult things. I know that may sound confusing, but what I mean is to be able to cook, clean, manage your money, do laundry, hold down a job, etc.
At least be left of center. Iām a liberal and registered Democrat. I like reading and talking about politics and occasionally watching it. Iām an active voter too! We donāt have to agree on everything, but generally, we need to be on the same side of the political spectrum.
Must want kids. Iām looking to have kids in my mid-to-late 20s, so maybe within 3-4 years? Iām thinking that I want 2-3 kids, but that depends on a variety of circumstances. In addition to that, I want a man who wants to be a positive male role model for our future kids. Fathers are important in the home and young boys especially need more healthy male role models nowadays. I want someone who believes in that too.
Must want to get married. Pretty obvious considering everything else I want, haha.
Live within or be willing to relocate (within 1-2 hours) to Cambria County (county in PA) in the future. Iām from Cambria County, but Iām working a temporary job somewhere else at the moment. I plan to move back once Iām done. However, Iām not set on staying in my hometown forever. Iām open to long-distance to start with. I just want my future kids to be somewhat close to my family so I donāt want to move too far away either.
Coupled with the point above, be a US citizen. Iām uninterested in dealing with all the issues surrounding dating a non-US citizen.
Be non-religious or accept that Iām not and I donāt want to raise our future kids in a religion either. Iām Agnostic, but grew up Christian. Because of my religious background, I donāt want to raise any children in that environment.
At least be my age or older. I admit that I have a thing for age gaps in relationships (or at least men who look older), but I also want kids and I have to consider the fatherās age when deciding a partner. So, definitely no older than someone in their late 30s.
So that I know youāve read this please send me a picture of yourself with your initial message. I believe mutual attraction is important in a relationship. But please make it an SFW photo! Iāve provided photos of myself so you can see what I look like, so Iām asking the same in return. Also, please send me more than, āhiā and put some thought into your message. Any messages without a picture and some thought put into them will be ignored. Finally, donāt be creepy. Iām a real person behind my username and if ya start being weird/gross/rude/etc. Iām going to block you with no warning. Everyone who reads this is old enough to know what I mean. Thank you for reading all this, and have a good evening!
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