Hey everyone! I'm a 21 year old trans man (FTM) based in the South East of the UK, looking to find a dom for in-person play. I am married, but in an open relationship as my wife is asexual, so you'd have to be okay with that. I'm open to any/all genders. :)

As a base, I'm looking for someone that falls into the following categories: -19-32 years old -Able to host (though I may be able to host at times, it's not guaranteed) -Lives in the South East or frequently travels here, and is open to in-person play -Willing to provide STI test results (obviously I will do the same) -Open to a FWB-style dynamic - would be great to vibe as friends and hang out outside of just the sex, but as stated, I'm married, so I'm not looking for another romantic relationship at the moment -Comfortable with domming and topping only - I don't mind if you're a dom or switch, but I'm a sub, and not interested in switching -Are at least a little into men - I've been on T for 5 years and had top surgery, so I look like a man. I have not had bottom surgery. I get that sexuality is complicated, so I don't mind if you're mostly or normally into women, and I also don't mind being your first trans guy/person, but if you're only interested in women, seriously don't reach out - I promise I'm not what you're looking for lol -Willing to be patient - I've got some experience with men and women, but I'm still a bit new in the grand scheme of things -Not a Tory (ew)

If you fall into those categories, here are some of the things I'm interested in. This is not an exhaustive list, and you definitely don't have to be into all of them, these are just some ideas! -Bondage -Orgasm control (edging and denial, forced orgasms, etc) -Praise kink -(Private) humiliation -Spanking -Feminisation -CNC -Tickling -Med play -Age play -Pet play

I don't have many hard limits, but here are a few (again, may not be exhaustive): -Extreme pain (incl anything that leaves a mark) -Any sort of public play -Scat/messy/"grossness"

If this sounds like something you'd be into, here's a bit more about me! I'm 5'4", chubby, and have a beard. I love music and reading, I'm pretty keen on dogs and cats equally, and I have an unhealthy obsession with bubble tea, lol. Also, bonus points if you like doing things like bowling, laser tag or mini golf, because I love finding and doing stuff like that!

If you're interested, please message me with a bit about you and what you're looking for. I'm happy to chat for a bit and get to know each other first, or happy to skip right to talking about the details of kink and save the getting to know each other for when we grab a coffee. Please note that I don't have a Snapchat or anything else along those lines, and am unwilling to sext - I don't mind talking a bit online but I'm much more interested in in-person interactions.