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I was a 29 year old male at the time. I had just gotten out of a long term relationship and I was beginning to explore my fantasies, I loved threesomes, group play, as well as sleeping with menâs wives or girlfriends in front of them. At first I just had fun fucking the manâs significant other in front of him. Didnât really go beyond just bedroom play. UntilâŚ
I met (letâs call them Danny and Marissa, D&M) D&M and I met on a site, but like EVERY OTHER SITE, I had exchanged a bunch of messages, phone calls, and spent hours that seemed to go nowhere and I wasnât expecting that to change especially with how D&M first messaged me.
Their first message said: We are a very discreet couple, seeking a male owner to use Marissa in the bedroom and make Danny serve. We have assets at our disposal, we can offer housing, and weâd love to travel with you. We saw your pics and your bio and you seem like a nice respectful younger gentleman, if this message interests you, please just call us xxx-xxx-xxxx (Sounds like a fantasy right?)
I didnât think this would go ANYWHERE.
It was a day or two after i received the message, I usually donât just call but I was walking home from work and I figured why not? I dialed the numbers, waited a few rings and then it went to voicemail. Figured. I put my headphones back on and continue my walkâŚwithin 5 minutes I get a call back.
âHello?â
They replied âHey, you called, whoâs this?â â Iâm always skeptical of this part but said
âYou messaged me as a couple⌠â and waited a few seconds, they quickly picked up what I was putting down âOh yes ManhattanSirâ (different username at the time) and we continued to review the message, and they explained that they had a bull previously, he was older and they were very much excited about my profile because I was younger and the wife liked younger dominant men. Apparently I give off a âmanlyâ vibe, maybe the hairy chest or my italian american look.
I quite enjoyed our chat, there was nothing weird or off about what they were asking (unlike so many of the other calls) but there was a part that I didnât still quite understand from their message so I brought it up on the call âWhat were they seeking?â they replied pretty aligned with what they originally had said in their first message to me âWe are a very discreet couple, seeking a male owner to use Marissa in the bedroom and make Danny serve. We have assets at our disposal, we can offer housing, and weâd love to travel with youâ I asked them to break it down to me. They replied with these rules
RULES
Discretion is number one
Seeking a Male Owner
Use Marissa Sexually
Make Danny a Servant
Occasionally Travel.
We will cover your lifestyle.
Trust me I had questions! 1 & 2 were straightforward to me. We covered Marissaâs limits honestly there werenât many and she just wanted to be used sexually and make it about my pleasure. Danny wanted to be used as a servant, butler, driver (never had any of those before) but wow thatâs how all husbands should be. I didnât understand them covering my lifestyle at first and trust me it took a few more phone calls, and a meeting in real life to really believe and understand them, but in the end they covered my rent, expenses, bought me gifts and gave me a weekly stipend! Unbelievable!
it was like I found a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow and this rainbow was sex 2-3 times a week and she was insatiable and wanted to be used fully for my pleasure. We made a contract and we signed documents as we shared financial information and truly wanted for full discretion. I even asked if I could write anything like this about them. This went on for about three months and then they wanted to move to Europe since New York was too busy for them anymore, they asked me to relocate them but my whole life, family, career is here in New York so I declined, one of the hardest things I did. I miss them tremendously.
Anyways Iâm just a regular guy, who truly felt like he benefited from a situation like this. I have been seeking for a similar but longer arrangement, but itâs proven hard to find. I am here and willing to chat. Honestly Iâve thought of all the sorts of people that would be amazing for this situation. Iâm just not a bi guy, but I am not afraid of âcontrollingâ another man, and or making them watch, or talk down to them, even just being their boss is fun. I donât always need the sexual component, but Iâm not gonna lie itâs fun having a female present.
I wanted to share this story and my situation so people on here might understand what Iâm seeking.
I BEGAN
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