Hiya! i am transwoman who spent a year in a partially remote 24/7 D/S relationship. My previous owner dropped me very little warning about 7 months ago (don’t worry i have had times and other partners to move on)
Pros to me: I have a very deep subspace and in that space all i desire is to serve. I have my own job, am well educated, can cook and clean when punished and rewarded, i am very good at oral and do not use my own genitals for sex so feel free to chasity or whatever. i get off from submission. i am fit and take care of myself, i am pretty femme. I am also radically honest and completely open once i trust a domme. i am not the jealous type but highly prefer monogamy and would not want to be in a poly group kinda my willingness to share is what doomed me last time
Cons to me: I have PTSD, i have been an abusive relationship (not one that was kink) and require physical affection and lots of cuddling and praise. I also have a bad habit of over serving till i am exhausted. I also am a bad sleeper who has night terrors sometimes and sleeping next to a person who makes me feel safe helps with that. I also am not good at feeding myself. I have a big kinda nuts family but we are not that close. I am very open and understanding person who doesn’t erupt about things and just want honesty so nothing gets stressful or explode i need a pretty low stress life
kinks: Petplay, Being restrained, sensory deprivation, i love rules, impact, candles, humiliation, and i love when somebody feels more like the most import person in the world and that i am the second most. i like cnc too but only if people can handle it maturally
Limits: Absolutely no yelling or affection withdrawal. i respect feeling and love a stern talking but i have triggers and it makes me no fun to be around or useful. No super visible bruises so i can live normally, no blood or scat
Not everything needs to be for life i also would be down for just somebody to play with. Not looking for long term online owner. I guess message me if that is interesting
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