hi all. im em, im 25, and im looking for a Daddy Dom (any gender) in the Midwest (im in east Iowa). ideally, you’ll be older than me and have experience in the lifestyle.

ive been interested/involved my entire adult life and, at this point, desire something 24/7. ive tried it just in the bedroom, and it doesn’t work for me. i work in management on a day-to-day basis, and when i come home, i just want to be a mindless little girl who makes Daddy happy. i don’t want to make decisions.

that being said, i still want to connect on a human level. i want to be your babygirl, your princess, and your pet - but so much more. we should connect intelligently and be able to have deep conversations at times.

if that sounds like something you want, here’s a little bit of info about me before you reach out. i work in marketing and have two bachelor’s degrees. i see my family quite often and don’t want that to change. i enjoy reading, crocheting, crafts, camping, walks, and more. i play animal crossing but generally avoid video games. im currently renovating my house so it’s relatively cluttered despite my desire for a tidy house. i have a healthy list of kinks, from the mundane to the unusual.

please do not message if you want someone who you don’t have to see as your equal. im looking for someone experienced who understands the complexities of BDSM dynamics and that it’s so much more than spanking, choking, and telling me what to do. i mean - i like all those things, but if you get it you get it. if you don’t, im not for you.

additionally, i want us to push each other to be better on a daily basis. i believe in productivity and that we should motivate each other.

before you message, know my red flags: leftist and feminist. chubby. mentally ill and traumatized. clingy/jealous. tattoos. alcohol/drugs. workaholic.

looking forward to hearing from you:)

note: please treat me like a person before jumping in and treating me as Yours™️