Introduction:

Hello! I shall apologise in advance as this will be a somewhat long, but I hope informative post about who I am and who/what I am seeking.

Please note - I am only looking for an IRL dynamic, so if you're looking for something online or you are not based in the UK, then I am not the sub for you.

About me:

Vanilla -

I am 25, single and live alone in the South East UK. I work in admin and social media running pages for small and local charities/businesses. I have a strong passion for music (anything old - 70's, 80's). I enjoy spending time socialising with friends and family. I love cooking, baking, long country walks and travelling! I don't take life too seriously and have a dry and somewhat dark sense of humour.

I am quite shy (at first at least), and it is worth mentioning that I do have a mild form of autism - this doesn't hold me back in life and I manage well - I just struggle in some social situations in unfamiliar places or around people I don't know. So please bare with me. It takes me time to warm to and trust people.

Physically -

I am white, 5'3, have long straight auburn hair, hazel eyes (often wear glasses), a slightly curvy build... and small boobs and I'm told a tight pussy! I would describe myself as a plain Jane.

Kink -

I am quite inexperienced when it comes to kink, but do have a small amount of experience that has left me wanting to fully explore my submissive side with an experienced Dom within a longterm D/s dynamic.

My experiences came from when I was seeing an older guy on and off, he wasn't a Dom as such but we explored together - he used a riding crop on me, spanked me, blindfolded and gagged me, had general rough sex with me and we tried some orgasm denial.

My main kinks/things I'd LOVE to explore are:

~ impact play

~ restraints

~ breath play

~ edge/fear play

~ degradation/humiliation

~ CNC

~ nipple clamps/torture

~ orgasm control/denial

~ punishments

~ TPE (eventually)

~ edging

And much more!

I do have my limits - not into anything illegal, scat, vomit, feet, blood, permeant injury/scaring, age play, pet play, DDLG and snapchat!

I would love to be able to have my pain threshold tested.

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Who and What I am looking for:

I am seeking an experienced Dominant who can overtime guide me and train me to become the best submissive I can be. Someone who I can safely explore my submissive side with and hopefully enter a longterm D/s dynamic (not relationship) with - with rules, structure, punishments, a dynamic that is present in every day life.

You'd need to be caring, patient, respectful, genuine, experienced and ideally have a sadistic streak.

I am NOT seeking married men or men in relationships - not for me. Nor am I looking for one night stands or occasional encounters. I'm also not looking for a Daddy Dom or anything DDLG related.

I like guys who are slightly older than me but not grandad age, sorry. Guys that strong both physically and mentally, who have their shit together and take care of themselves.

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Other:

As I mentioned, I do live alone, but do not feel comfortable hosting at mine, possibly due to my autism I see my home as my safe space and my own space for me.

I am not a fan of busses or trains but will use them if I absolutely have to - I do own a car and am waiting (forever) to take my test.

I'm not a switch and would never consider switching.

I'd expect there to be safe words in place and forms of aftercare.

I will share photos of myself when I am ready to, please do not pressure me into this.

I am NOT looking for an online dynamic!

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End:

I think (hope) that covers most of it, congratulations if you've actually read all of this, thank you! If I haven't put you off, then please feel free to message me!

~ M x