Hey, my potential partner,

I want to be truthful and honest, I'm looling for casual for now but would like someone(s?) I could feel intimately close. I want to equally as awestruck by you as the euphoria of subspace I'd inspire. I'm writing ahead of time because truthfully, while I love people who are dirty upfront, I was most happiest when someone let the curtain down amd shared their world with me, if even for a day. I don't have high expectations, I just want someone sweet, feminine, who's willing to let me know them as much as I'd like to share. I haven't lived on the continent since I was 19 and I'm looking forward to it as I feel much more at home in Europe than I do stateside.

There are two personal platitudes I hold sacred in and out the bedroom. The first is that my word, my promise to you, is my obligation. The second is that I conduct myself properly amd passionately.

You'll see the side of me that likes to edge someone into oblivion while taking every delight at teasing and breaking you down to your most primal desires. I'm fairly unassuming during the day and a gentleman who'd slap you with a smile at night. Speaking of allow me to elaborate on that.

I've been involved on and off in the BDSM world since I was 20, starting with munches in NJ and dungeon clubs in NYC. The first person I ever met in the scene was a sadist with decades of experience who gave me a hands-on introudction to impact play. On my order of what I'm knowledgable on the most I'd say it goes like this; Impact Play, sensory deprivation, orgasm denial, wax play, and rope. Typically, I've stuck with things that I can actively do in the bedroom and things that correlate to my personality. I work best when I can really connect with someone and am not shy of exhibitionism.

I enjoy the chase of knowing I caught you and that extends to my absolute enjoyment of using my hands in the bedroom. The high of knowing my touch just sets you off on an experience of a lifetime in the span of an afternoon to the low of aftercare ruminating on the immense amount of trust you've granted me. I'm naturally soft spoken and gentle but I have a large range of "personas" when it comes to kink. I lowkey enjoy degrading and humiliating my partners going far as rubbing wet panties on a partner's soaking clit and stuffing it in their mouth. I've also dabbled in being a bull for a couple where I sent insulting texts and photos to their partner. My toolkit is lightweight at the moment with only a paddle, basic restraints, shoe laces, clothespins, a blindfold, and two sets of jute and red silk rope as I currently search for a new set of quality impact implements.

With vanilla interests, first and foremost, I'm an avid traveler. Lived in London and the US with a one month stint in Mexico. Most recent international trip was Madrid and Valencia for Las Falles with a spontanepus skiing trip to Andorra sandwhiched inbetween. One of my biggest bucket list things was visiting the Monarch Reserve in Michoacán with the next one being to climb Devil's Tower in Wyoming. In the past, I've been on a mission trip to Guatemala and have had several road trips, lengthiest being a Southern trip to the Grand Canyon and back. I've grown my cookbook from all the places I've been so have an open mind as well as appetite and hope you do too.  

I like to to think I'm interesting but I'm fairly modest so I'd like to leave you to draw your own conclusions once you meet me. In fact, I often fill my time with figure drawing, fashion design, and poetry. There's just something erotic and intimate to me about sketching someone I've played with and as I improve I definitely wouldn't mind new subjects. Poetry has also been a huge inspiration for me which I'm also training myself to get back into. When I'm doing either I listen to my Spotify playlists as it's littered with jazz, indie, and early ska. Pre-pandemic I'd have band signatures added to a grey and white washout demim jacket by Timberlake's William Rast brand. Biggest Highlights including Franz Ferdinand, The Buzzcocks, and James Supercave!

  Basically pouring my kinky big "heart" into this I do have a few hard boundaries such as knifeplay, anything involving children, diapers, blood, and scat. I do consider myself quite well rounded and I'd gladly answer questions. I'm open and would enjoy sharing.

About my appearance:

• 5'9", raised amongst 6ft men
• Shaved head. I lost my bair in a traumatic lawn mower incident in 19'
• Beautiful, deep blue eyes
• Attractive, stern voice.
• Slim build, broad shoulders, 160lbs
• Clean and trim beard
• I'm DDF (Due for bi-annual full checkup, Vaccinated & Boosted w/Pfizer

What I look for:

• 20-34 is ideal.
• Active in both body and mind
• I workout regularly and look for the same.
• Preference for slim thick or petite
• Open to all colors.
• I really appreciate someone who likes lingerie.

Feel free to write me. I prefer longer messages than just a hello.

Best, with great affection,

John