28 year old trans guy in UK, looking for a Dom. I do have a preference for other trans and nb people, but any gender is welcome. It'd be great to have in person meet ups, but happy to discuss other options. I'm asexual, and looking to explore power dynamics and kinks outside sex, so please only message if you're open to play with no sex. It'd also be awesome to find someone who'd be interested in being friends as well.
I love exercise, making things, and am always looking for things to learn. It's a weird day if I haven't had my "Ooh, that'd make a great project!" moment. I emphasise listening and finding ways to meet the needs of others while also being clear if something isn't for me. I celebrate those I'm close to. Please be direct. Tell me what you'd like - that leaves the guesswork for things like working out how to make/get you meaningful birthday gifts!
I'm definitely obedient over bratty, and like to make people happy. However, I do like punishment, especially if it's not entirely fair, used as a way to make me dependent on the Dom, or to train. Also like being bullied. So, if you're a sadist - come say hi!
In the interest of keeping things relatively short, here are some other things I'm into:
-Pet Play
-Chastity devices
-Collaring and ownership
- Humiliation/Degradation
-Various forms of impact play
-Manhandling/Rough
Open to exploring too - just let me know and we'll chat about it. I'm always happy to at least talk about something you're interested in trying.
And some hard limits (if I've missed anything I'll always let you know if I'm really not into something):
-Anything illegal
-Under 25, over 40
-Public play
-Knives/Guns
-Bodily fluids/substances
-Misgendering
-Feminisation
-Findom
Thanks for reading :) If this all sounds good to you, send over a message introducing yourself, your interests, and what you're looking for.
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