It's Friday night and we don't have any plans. It's the end of the work week and I feel restless. We're sitting on the couch with you massaging my neck when I turn around and kiss you softly. "Do you want to go out and do something fun?!" I ask eagerly.

"It's not really about what I want, is it? But of course, I'd love to go and have fun with you. I love being with you." My face lights up, I love that you know just what to say to make my heart flutter.

"But first, cocktails!" I exclaim gleefully. It's our end of the week ritual and you start walking towards the kitchen because you know it's your job to serve me up something yummy. I wait impatiently, wondering what new drink you're whipping up for us this week.

If you couldn't tell, I'm looking for something more. More than a kinky dynamic, more than a casual conversation. I don't want small talk or kinky conversations from the start. If that's what you're looking for, look elsewhere.

About me... it's a little awkward trying to write an advertisement for yourself, isn't it? I do like to write and use it as an outlet. But how in the world does one express the essence of themselves in a BDSM personal? Maybe I should start by explaining why I'm posting here in the first place.

Most of my relationships have been vanilla. I've tried to make it work. Really fucking tried, but it never does. I'm not new to this, but I haven't tried to pursue a dynamic in quite some time, either. I'm tired of trying to make something work that leaves me yearning at the end of the day.

Non-kinky Spotlight:

• I enjoy finding new restaurants and foods to try. The feeling of mastering a new recipe is satisfying. I'll keep trying if I don't get it right the first time. • I love games that you can play together in person. Think card games, tabletop, etc. • A lot of my focus is spent on reading and sometimes writing. Getting lost in a story for hours on end is quite tranquil. • I love adventures but have yet to go on any epic journeys. • I'm college-educated with an established career. I've worked hard to get to where I am today and to live a comfortable lifestyle.

Kinky Spotlight:

• I am searching for a TPE female-led relationship. • I'm as much a sadist as I am gentle. It really depends on my mood. • A few of my favorite kinks are: bondage, impact, servitude, collar/leash lead.

A couple of things to note: I'm not into switching or anything gay/bi. I am attracted to cis-gendered straight men only. This is not meant to come off harsh, simply that I know what I'm attracted to and don't want to waste my time or yours.

If I've caught your interest, send me a thoughtful message (NOT using the chat feature) that makes it clear you're not just using another copy and paste reply.