BDSM is my passion in life. I'm not talking about some rough sex to make the weekend exciting. Or a drawer with a few cheap floggers from the local sex toy shop. Or making someone call me Sir on the first message. I've been deeply involved in this lifestyle for over half my life now and it still is exciting and rewarding every day.

• I make many of my own toys in leather and wood. Lots of floggers, a few whips and even a completely custom bedframe. Some of the work is posted on my profile
• I'm a member of the local community and play at the dungeon regularly
• I volunteer regularly because I feel it is important to give back and ensure that everyone has an equal opportunity to be their kinky selves
• I'm currently renovating my bonus room into a kinky play space
• I've contributed to a lot of discussions here on Reddit and you can see them in my history
• I go to classes and try to learn constantly - there is always something new to learn (and its sexy to admit you don't know something instead of faking knowledge)

I'm looking for equally passionate people. Maybe you are already deeply involved in the lifestyle. Or maybe you feel like a window shopper looking for the right opportunity to explore your kinks and fetishes. Your age, body shape and experience don't matter to me. What matters are shared interests, some good chemistry and a desire to do things in person (after some thorough vetting and safety checks of course).

My favorite conversations and play experiences have been when someone says, "This will sound crazy, but I really want to...". It is incredibly hot to take someone's fantasy and turn it into a reality. Giving them a safe, trusted environment to explore their dreams. Especially the darker, edgy ones you don't really want to admit you have.

Some of my favorite kinks are listed below. If you have a favorite and it isn't listed - I'm probably into it. I just didn't want you to scroll through 6 pages of bullets.

• Impact play (floggers, spanking, whips, canes, etc.)
• Shibari & suspensions
• CNC/rape play/somnophilia/kidnapping
• Breath play (choking, bagging, gas masks, even waterboarding)
• Humiliation/degradation
• Edging, orgasm control/denial and forced orgasms
• Objectification
• All kinds of bondage (gags, mummification, cages, restraints, etc.)
• Needles & artistic cutting
• Mind fucks/predicaments/mental conditioning/emotional & mental sadism
• Long term captive/bondage sessions/interrogations

If you want something more serious than exploring a fantasy or some play sessions, I also am looking for a domestic slave girl who wants to share my BDSM focused life. And if none of this applies to you, but you still want to strike up a fun conversation for the night, drop me a chat and we will see what we have in common.

A few fun vanilla facts about me so this isn't entirely kink focused :)

• Fit and active, I enjoy working out, hiking, and keeping a healthy lifestyle. Body picture on my profile
• I love to cook and grill. The past holiday season I made everything from prime rib to a Canadian bacon/gruyere quiche to fondue.
• I enjoy hosting and chose my house with game nights and gatherings in mind.
• Ask me about my board game collection! I've been converting my dining room into a game room and have a new gaming table on order.
• One of the extra bedrooms is now a library, because reading is one of my favorite hobbies. Just finished the Gentleman Bastard series and currently working through a number of graphic novels.
• DragonCon is one of my mandatory vacations every year. Also checking out GenCon for the first time!
• Music tastes are wide ranging including rock, metal, EDM, rap, classical and more. This past year I saw Shinedown, Korn, 2Cellos, Three Days Grace and Trans-Siberian Orchestra in concert. Avenged Sevenfold, In This Moment and Motionless in White are scheduled next.
• I love roller coasters and try to visit at least one park every year

Good luck in your search, I hope you find what you are looking for.

Damon