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Short introduction to what I think introversion and extraversion is:
Introversion: you listen first, because you want to know how to best act and act second.
Extraversion: you do first, because you want what you want, and you never think about it.
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I've been to a few BDSM munches (a fancy term for social gatherings), and I noticed that in general, people in public are really outgoing and energetic and really go for what they want. It's all about getting what you want, and you make up the rules about what you want and what you don't want and so on.
Personally I think it's tiring, because I like to be more intimate on a one-on-one level. As in, subtle emotions, being emotionally connected and sharing an experience and all that 'slow' or 'boring' stuff. That's what an extravert would say. Point is, when I'm out, I feel everyone is literally and metaphorically yelling. I don't need to yell to make you and myself feel things. I don't have to grab the metaphorical megaphone to make you understand what I feel, or you don't need to yell to me for me to understand. I'm already paying attention, and I'm rather good at reading people. It's just I can't get to the 'just focusing on you' part, because out there people expect bombastic assertiveness and high energy and whatnot. At a party, I'd rather be the couple sitting in a corner, cuddling into one another and losing ourselves in eachother instead of being the loud extraverted chad and stacy.
So yeah, I'm looking for a girl who wants me to be an extraverted guy to do mean, both physical and mental, bdsm things to her.
DM me.
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