Hey there! Are you tired of no-effort posts making demands, calling you Mistress, Mom(my), etc, while giving nothing back and not even trying to get to know you? Of course you are! That’s why you clicked on this post. You knew it was going to be different and you were right.
I will make no demands! Because why would a sub demand anything anyway? I’d like to give you a look into who I am though and maybe you’ll see someone you think might be a good match for you. That’s the point of all this, right?
For starters, I’m a submissive guy in Colorado, near Denver. There are a couple of photos here and here. They’re on my profile too. I’m into fitness, the outdoors, animals, cocktails, and memes. I’m definitely a bit on the nerdy side. I have a full-time job, live alone, and have a pretty flexible schedule and availability, if you get my drift. I have a lot of experience in the kink lifestyle, so I’m not new to being a sub. There are some additional details in the about me post but I’ll try to cover some of it here so you don’t have to switch screens.
Speaking of being a sub… I’m definitely not a brat but I do like a lot of attention and can be somewhat needy or clingy, especially in the beginning. I enjoy interacting with my Domme, including about more than just the kink side of life. I strive to make my Domme proud of me as her sub and to make sure she comes (cums) first.
I can be an over-communicator, can you tell? I like being able to tell my Domme if I’m feeling especially horny, anxious, submissive, happy, sad, nervous, etc. This helps get me more into the submissive space, especially if my Domme can accommodate and respond to my thoughts. I appreciate when my she knows me well and knows when/how to push my limits but also what’s too much. She basically knows what I need better than I do.
As far as kinks go, there’s a list in the above-mentioned About Me post. However, orgasm control / denial are top for me. I find being denied helps me really get into the mental state and be a lovely, desperate, pliable, little sub for my Domme.
What kind of Domme would be a good fit for me? Probably a more gentle Domme (not necessarily Mommy-domme, but I’m not opposed). Pain does nothing for me but I can endure some for my Domme. I'm also not into age-play so if that's your thing, best of luck but I'm probably not a good fit. I’m looking for someone who wants to get to know me and who has time for a slightly needy sub. Ideally this would end up being something long-term like an actual relationship, especially if we’re both local.
I’d love to hear more about you if you decide to reach out! Let’s be honest, this is a guy’s post so it isn’t like I’ll be receiving a ton of messages. Shoot your shot! Reddit Chat is terrible so, instead send me a message!
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