Have you ever want to challenge yourself to make someone addicted to you? Its kinda vague but I am looking for someone that want that.

Hi! My name is Leandro, I am a 36 old dom living in Portugal and for the past 19 years I am the kind of dom that are always in control. Recently I've tried this online thing and altough I would say I have pretty nice results, I catch myself wanting something a little bit different. So buckle up because I think this will be a very long text.

I want to challenge you to challenge me to want you, its make sense? So normally what ha´ppening is I have a nice conversation, I expose my side and my desires and get a quicky or at the best someone for a couple of months till they ghosting me. Even tho I had some nice results before (some very good friendships) I still want something more meaningful. I want someone that wants so bad to make me please, that they will not just obey me and make my bid, but actually try hard to please me. I know this sounds weird but I had so much experiences with women that just follow and not add that I think somewhere outhere there is someone that really want to please rather than just be used and use if you know what I mean. I am still in full control, I am not a switch or anything like that, but I am missing the sensation that if I not reach you and demand/propose/order you to do something, you will reach me because you miss that or just because you know that this, even after a terrible day at work, will make me happy and pleased. Sometimes I think I am chasing a myth rather than someone else, I found so many "doms" and "subs" that doesn't know what they are doing or just doesn't want to learn that seems that a quicky is the only thing we should look here rather than a full pleased submissive person.

So you could ask: "why should I submite myself to you?"

For that I answer: "I don't know, why?" There is no right answer to that question, the only thing I can promisse to you is that I'll be honest and open from the day one, I will put my limits and express my desires, I know that true submission will not flourish out of nothing, so I will take my time just knowing you so I can, as well, please you in your submission, the only thing I ask at first is your time and honesty. I am open to any woman (cis or trans), I am open to any kind of body, I am open to any kind of ethnicity, I am open to any kind of status (being single, in a relantionship or married), I am open to any age (18 offcourse) and even at any type of experience (I don't mind teach what I like and test you so you can learn what you like), the only thing I am looking for is a connection where I know if I can't, for some reason, give you my full attention you will not freak out and disappear or just do nothing because I am not there to enforce my will and if you can't for any reason, instead of liying and disappear as well, you will feel free to openly tell me so I can give you some tasks or just understand your side.

I know what you are thinking: "but this is not obvious?"

Try to reach in your memories and experiences or even among your friends if you have and see how many of them have this kind of experience for real, I am not saying you will not find, but I think you will notice that this is very rare!

I didn't describe myself or even my kinkys here, I hope if you read this till here you are interested in what I can offer rather than just looks or kinkys, so reach trough my DM and I will be more than happy to explain exactly how I look and what I like if this is what you wanna know,

Another thing, if you are shy or think that is not for a sub to reach a dom because of anything that comes to your mind, I want to tell you that I'll not judge you by your first message at all, so even if you don't know whatto say, just say hi and I'll answeer your back and start a more in depth conversation, I want someone that want to be my submissive woman, I want a connection, so don't feel that you can't make me want you just because you don't know how to express yourself, even in other languages, we can find something to share!