Hey there BDSMpersonals, this might be an unusual sort of post for this subreddit, but I'm craving a mutual, loving, committed relationship with a woman who wants the same, that just so happens to also be quite kinky in nature. I've realised sex is an important part of my life, so I'd love to find a relationship or a fwb (with emphasis on the friends part) who felt the same way.

In the bedroom, I'm a switch who loves to go both ways, ultimately I just love the exchange of power and the trust and control that comes with it. I don't expect you to be a switch to, but tell me which way you lean on the dynamic so we can find something mutually enjoyable ;)

Kink wise, my biggest kinks are free-use (either/both ways), (gentle) cnc, and breeding/creampies. I'm also into orgasm control (though not so much denial), and tasks/service, impact play and anal play (also both ways). With that being said, my only limits are the usual ones (anything illegal, permanent or abusive), along with anything excessively harsh, both ways. I'm fine with light degradation/humiliation and name-calling in the bedroom, but if you're after intense, permanent or ongoing cruelty, I might not be right for you. Outside of that, I'm incredibly kink friendly and I always want to try new things, especially knowing it's something that you'd enjoy. I also have lots of toys and am always looking to get more. My absolute favourite bedroom act (though I'm not sure if you'd call it a kink given how vanilla it is) by far, and pretty much my only non-negotiable, is giving oral. Being able to eat you out regularly would be really important to me, perhaps even more important than sex itself. I've worked this into both a dominant and a submissive role before and loved both. As a dom, I'd want you to know I'm pleasuring you because it makes me feel good and because I love hearing the sounds my little one makes, and the pleasure it gives me knowing I'm taking care of you. As a sub, I'd be your human vibrator, dutifully taking care of your needs for as long as you need, with you free to enjoy my tongue, browse the internet, watch porn or whatever else you'd like, paying me as little or as much attention as you'd like. My ultimate fantasy is to have someone I can eat out at least once a day.

Outside of the bedroom, I'm a huge nerd, I love all things science and learning about things that interest me, and having someone to talk to about it, especially in the fields of psychology and exercise science. I'm a computer science student, and I also work part time. When those things aren't keeping me busy, I like to game (gamer pals maybe? Not a requirement, but it would be cute) and workout, mostly running, though those two have taken the back-seat lately due to an increase in my workload at work, but I've just started getting back into them. If this does turn into a relationship, some things you should know are that I'd like to remain child free and that I'm not religious. I also have facial hair.

Ultimately I'm just looking to find a kinky, sex positive person to share a connection with, I don't have much of a preference with regards to age (18 obviously), ethnicity or body type, I've found if I have chemistry with the person that I'll enjoy their body either way, though I'm happy to exchange photos. I'm open to meeting someone anywhere in WA, or somewhere else in Australia with the plan to eventually meet. Looking forward to hearing from you!