Hello dear reader.
 

About me:
My personality type is Mediator. I strongly encourage you to read more about it (click the link) because it very accurately describes me, but in a short here are a few relevant quotes:

Mediators are compassionate and nonjudgmental, always willing to hear another person’s story. When someone opens up to them or turns to them for comfort, they feel honored to listen and be of help.
 
Devoted and loyal, they nevertheless respect their partner’s independence, aiming to accept their partners as they are. That said, these personalities also want to help their partners learn, grow, and pursue their goals.
 
A mediators’ support and devotion can make all the difference in their partners’ lives.  

 
That said, I'm not just a pile of fluff. My main kink is control. This is what I get off on, and most of my other kinks revolve around it. I also have a very strong sadistic side. I love breaking you until you're a sobbing convulsing mess that I cum into, and then I will pick up the dripping ruined pieces and with love and aftercare put them back together, and show you just how much I care about you and make you feel warm, safe and loved at my chest.

 
Moving beyond kink, my hobbies are reading (fantasy, magic, shapeshifters, young adult), PC gaming (primarily survival games, MMOs), tabletop gaming (DnD 5e in particular) and spending time with my girl, be it playing together, watching a movie together, or just listening her sleep and guarding her dreams. I want not just a good little bitch in heat to use and care for, but also someone with whom I can spend time with and enjoy each other's company outside of kink, particularly in playing PC games together.

 
What I ask of you:

1. Honesty and openness. This is the foundation on which we will build our relationship. I want you to be open and honest about your feelings. I will ask you often, and I insist that you tell the truth. Pretending to feel differently that you really do is unacceptable. I've seen far too many potential relationships implode because is this. I won't go into details here, but remember, this is crucial.

2. Your body will be mine, and your sexuality will be under my complete control. You will not touch yourself sexually without my approval.

3. Orgasm control and Orgasm denial: this ties into the previous point. I will be your only source of sexual pleasure and you will have it only when and how I say it.

4. Free use: Sexually, you will do exactly what I say at all times (with respect to things I will never do, listed below). Regardless of whether you're in the mood or not, I can use you as I wish at all times.

5. Submissive: you will have to be submissive and reasonably respectful. I don't require formality, but require manners. Your place is underneath me. I respect that some girls are bratty, but that's not for me. It must be us against the world, not us against each other. Our relationship will be a source of comfort and acceptance.

6. Live in European timezone, or have a daily schedule compatible with european timezones as nothing sucks more than to be great for each other, but never find the time to be together.

    
    

Things I will never do:

I will never ask you to do something that would leave a lasting mark, risk outing you, hurt your social, academic, or professional life or your health. Blood, knife, needle play are also hard nos for me.
 
 
What I offer:
Structure and stability. I will always be there for you, I will guide you and encourage you. You will always have a chest to lie on, a ear to listen to you, a heart to care for you, and a man you can lean on, and rely on. I will help you enjoy your kinks and if desired explore new ones, while keeping a safety net underneath you at all times. In short... I take care of what is mine. So when you become my girl, you gain a protector, lover, confidant and teacher.
 
 
And last but not least... I want to clarify that I'm looking for something long term with possibility of irl and forever if we really match. I don't want just a sex toy to fuck, but a girl to love. A girl in whom I will invest, a girl I'll take of in every way, a girl that I'll make happy and help to be the best version of herself that she can be, and know that she trusts me implicitly, will tell me everything, and will curl up at my chest seeking, warmth, safety, and surrendering both her heart and her body to me unconditionally, to use and cherish.

If you reached this point and feel the spark of something, or simply wish to ask a question, please feel free to write, and we can talk more.

Thank you for reading my post and if it's not what you're looking for, I wish you the best of luck in finding that which you seek.