Hi everyone! I’m a 24 y/o, male sub-leaning switch seeking a woman aged 22 - 34 to explore kink with.

I’ve always been pretty shy when it comes to sex and intimacy, so I’ve recently been trying to climb out of the ol’ anxiety mines and broaden my horizons a bit. That all said, I'm looking for someone in York or the surrounding area who is patient and open minded, of any experience level, to explore kink and sensuality with. I'm also open to online/longer distance relationships with people elsewhere in the UK with the expectation that we would eventually meet in person. I'm looking for either a relationship or something regular and casual (but still based on an authentic connection).

Physically I’m 5’8” and ~75kg, white, and dad-bodied with a buzzcut. Right now I’m clean shaven but I grow a beard out every once in a while.

Although I do enjoy a good night out and am quite sociable with the right people, I would say I'm more of a homebody. I enjoy cooking a lot (nothing more meditative than making stock), but truth be told I've been too absorbed in the new Zelda recently to make anything more difficult than pasta. I love watching films, especially ones which can challenge or change my point of view.

Kinks-wise I'm drawn to soft(ish) dommes - if you respect my limits and boundaries then you're more than welcome to disrespect me in a whole lot of other ways. Nothing turns me on more than the idea of a beautiful woman gently commanding me to defile myself, so if you're someone with a deviant side who needs a nerdy slut to slap around, peg, tie up, or otherwise torment then please get in touch 🥹.

Of course if you don't subscribe to the d/s dynamic and just want to have kinky some fun then I am absolutely up for that too. I have toys including plugs, rope, and an estim kit.

Finally my hard limits include scat, blood, public play, really taboo roleplay, total power exchange, and generally anything cruel or life ruining.

I'm longing for an environment where we can both be our candid kinky selves. If you're at all interested then please drop me a message with a bit about yourself, including your age/sex/location ❤️.

PS I'm happy to send pictures privately once we’ve talked for a little bit.