I've been in and out of this subreddit for a while now and met a few people doing so while looking for a long-term / forever dom. It's been a lot of really great conversation and even a few that I thought could continue into a relationship, but nothing has really come of it. I'd be thrilled if a relationship happened!

So, a little about me! I'm 25 and work a lot. On my normal off days, I tend to hang out at home reading, watching shitty anime (I'm new to anime and I'm just trying to find something I like. Demon slayer has been rad as hell, but so has Fairy Tale!), and exploring random places with my puppers. I got into geocaching late last year and use it as a huge excuse to go off into the wilderness and get poison ivy 🤣

I have two dogs and 3 cats and I love them more than most things. All are rescues or failed fosters and are spoiled absolutely rotten.

For fun, I read a TON. I'm sorta learning how to knit, but I have shit focus for a single task. I love to cook and bake, and I recently made my first tiramisu, but my absolute favorites are pies. I think my favorite thing to eat is sandwiches? But honestly I just like bread and meat.

My guilty pleasure is tattoos and I absolutely want a ton of them. Color means a lot to me and my goal is to be as colorful as a sunrise. I also collect houseplants and rocks. So everytime I go adventureing, I usually bring back something to put on a bookshelf and look pretty.

I work an insane job. I'm a licensed veterinary technician who almost exclusively works in the surgery suite. I'm on my feet pretty much all the time and after work I just want to shut my brain off. It's what and why I got interested in bdsm and giving that control over to someone is as thrilling as it is relaxing.

As for the kinky stuff, I'm flexible and more comfortable in a submissive role and my favorite thing is having my boundaries tested and learning about myself. I'd like a partner who can push me, but also can coddle me after a shit day at work. I have a deeply rooted oral fixation and without anything to focus on, I chew gum like I'm paid for it. So, oral is a big deal is what I'm saying 🤣 I love giving it and I love receiving it even more. Orgasm control is always thrilling, but I tend to be slow to orgasm and generally get to that overstimulated quivering stage long before I actually come. I love any attention to my chest and will purr like a kitten in bliss.

Hard no: scat, whips (just fucking ow, guys), and latex (I am allergic and like to live).

I'm blonde, blue eyed, maybe 5'7, have hair past my tail bone, and a mom body. I'm a fluffy girl with thick thighs and a bigger chest. I wear glasses and will full on Velma it without them (I'm hella blind). I'm not married, nor have I been, and have no kids (just dogs and cats). I have a southern accent and love to talk and will often talk so fast that I forget to breathe or skip whole words. I'm absolutely caffeine addicted and protect my coffee pot like a jealous dragon.

Feel free to message or DM me and tell me about yourself!