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I have been through quite a lot of situations on my path to find someone decent on Reddit but so far no luck. If you enjoy ghosting, catfishing or emotionally unavailable please do not waste my time.

I am 34 and based in Denmark. I am looking for a soft Dom who is ready for new adventures but also has the intention of settling down in the next years. I am a goal-oriented person and I work hard to achieve the goals I have set for myself. I am a realist who prefers to have a positive outlook on life but you will not see me sugarcoating the truth. Life has thrown me a couple of curveballs which in turn have formed me into the person I am today. I have trust issues so I value honesty and communication deeply. I am financially independent and I have a solid base here in Denmark so I am looking for someone who would be interested in relocating in the future. I am looking to connect with people from Europe or UK which will make it easier to meet and have conversations.

I have lived abroad for several years and I love going on new adventures. Experiencing new cultures and languages is a passion of mine. 10 points to you if you can guess the four languages I am fluent in. I have been around but I still have a long list of countries I would like to visit so I hope my future Dom will be interested in exploring new places with me. I especially enjoy road trips and would love to turn a van into a camper to travel around Scandinavia and Europe.

Ideally you are a soft Dom between the ages 32-44 and ready to not only settle down but also to explore the world with me. I am not interested in a 24/7 dynamic. I would like to keep my independence in certain areas of life which is why I am not interested in a micromanaging sadistic Dom. I am looking for someone who has similar interests like me and someone I can bond with mentally and emotionally. I am relatively new to this lifestyle so I am expecting my future Dom to be patient and communicative with me. I am looking for a Dom I can have conversations with and simply share life. For me it’s about coexisting in harmony. I am naturally drawn to dominant men and I tend to feel more attracted to tall men with broad shoulders. Physical attraction is important but I mostly get attracted to how someone expresses themselves so if you are intelligent and carry a conversation I would like to get to know you. I am looking for someone who is interested in a genuine monogamous relationship so we can explore the limits of our trust for each other.

I am 167cm tall with reddish brown hair and brown eyes. I am ethnically not Danish. I have a curvy body type and I workout 3-4 times a week to stay active. I enjoy long walks in the nature or at the beach. My favourite season is winter and I love to snuggle under a cozy blanket with a cup of hot chocolate during the coldest days. I enjoy reading but I will not categorise myself as a serial reader. I have various hobbies but analog photography is a true passion of mine. I am not a gamer and I have never been. The last game I played was Super Mario Bros. As you can see I love anything old and retro so bring me to an arcade and watch me beat someone in Street Fighter.

The reason I am looking for D/s dynamic is that I like the whole concept of bonding with someone. I am naturally very submissive and I like to please. As for kinks I am into a variety of things but lately I have been obsessed with almost everything about the breeding kink. Other kinks that I am into is free use, anal, cum play, impact play, bondage, choking (gentle) and probably a few more that I cannot remember right now. As for hard limits extreme pain, blood, scat and permanent markings comes to my mind at the moment. I am open to discuss kinks and limits as well other aspects of the dynamic. I am not looking for TPE and I would like to carry on with my life independently.

I see myself as an independent woman who is looking for a kinky life companion. Feel free to reach out to me if you think we could be a good match. Tell me a bit about yourself. Are you a dog or a cat person? What’s your favourite color? Where do you want to travel next? Coffee or tea?

I prefer longer messages so do not hesitate to send me long messages where you introduce yourself. Short messages will not be answered.