What I’m Looking For: A male-led, taken in hand lifestyle relationship. This means something that has kink structure, but also has vanilla crossover. I like to wake up to orders and instructions, be micromanaged and examined, and spanked, but I also want to go on nice trips, meet your friends and family, and snuggle while we watch Netflix. Think of a 1950's lifestyle but more modern, ideally with heavy TPE overtones, as that tends to leave me the most fulfilled. I’m open to relocation for a great fit. I live in a small town and haven’t had much success here. So I’m coming here in hopes of having more luck.

About Me:I tend to describe myself as a sweet submissive-type. I’d say I’m mostly bubbly girly-girl. Some things I enjoy are cooking, drawing, crocheting, shopping and getting dressed up, long walks to nowhere, hopelessly vying for my cats love and affection, the feeling of a fresh set of sheets, bubble baths, being praised, sewing my own clothes, and watching the same shows on repeat. I’m 5’5”, long wavy brown hair, brown eyes, cute, and slightly chubby. And some big picture bullet points: I’m single, monogamous, never married, no kids, has a job, has two cats, has a car, doesn’t have STDs.

About You: These are just some general guidelines, so if you don’t check every single box exactly but still feel we’d be an amazing fit, message :)

Single

Monogamous

Childless

Age 25-45

Gainfully employed

No serious/unmedicated mental health issues

Looking for something IRL and long term

Sends a chat

The Fun Stuff: My kink list ;)

24/7 TPE Wardrobe control

Bathroom control

Meal/Exercise control

Orgasm control

Impact play

DDLG

Praise

Slight Humiliation/Degradation

Anal/Anal training

Displays of ownership

Some things I’ve been interested in but have yet to try: CNC, water sports, pet play, restraints

Thanks for sticking with me and powering through. Also, please note I work non-traditional hours, so if I don’t respond right away don’t think it’s because I’m not going to, it’s because I’ll do it once I have some down time. When I post, I tend to zero in on one or two people, try a dynamic on for size. Good luck in your search.