basically i’m here because i’m sick of games. looking for a genuine connection, and sex isn’t my goal here, but i need to be with someone on my level kink-wise. i’m a sub. if you’re into cnc, heavy degradation, light knife play, objectification… keep reading.

i want someone to build a life with. i’m no stranger to reddit and previously dated someone long term from here, going as far as moving in together; however, that ended in infidelity on his part.

nonetheless, i definitely believe in the process here as long as we’re both open, honest, and considerate of one another.

~ABOUT ME~

physically, i’m 5’8, blue eyes, auburn/purple hair, and curvy/ plus size body type (currently working towards a healthier lifestyle and weight)

i work in the legal field; i like cooking, crafts, reality tv, chill nights at home, loud music car rides with the windows down, and very into tarot/witchy things and the paranormal.

i’m demisexual, incredibly passionate about mental health and domestic abuse awareness, moderate-left leaning political beliefs, and i believe in god, but i’m not religious.

my favorite cuisine is mexican, but also love pizza and sushi. my favorite music genres are rap and pop.

i don’t consider myself nerdy, not into anime or gaming, although there are some games i can enjoy with the right vibe.

i’m a social drinker (only when i go out), and occasionally enjoy edibles, especially with the right partner.

i don’t have any children or pets, and i have my own place and my own car. i am not very willing to relocate, but would consider the following: NC, SC, VA, NV, WA, or CA.

~DEAL BREAKERS~

please do NOT reply if:

you have a cat (allergies);

my weight is an issue for you;

you’re submissive in the bedroom (i’m subby so just wouldn’t work);

you’re not in the states above and are unwilling to relocate;

you’re not a US citizen (immigration is not something i want to get involved with);

you don’t have a career and are not working towards one;

you’ve ever cheated on a partner; or

you’re under 21 or over 45.