A naturally dominant man, both an observer of life and an active participant in wordly matters, I look for a stimulating mind, a beautiful soul, and an appealing physique, coming together in a lovely, submissive package. I live in a tropical country some consider heaven on Earth, but travel is a possibility, now and in the future - in fact, I just came back from the US East Coast.

What we build together could be a temporary respite. A brief, unforgettable one. It could also be more lasting. The time we spend together is a secondary concern, though; what I care most about is that we find a meaningful connection. We can take it from there, depending on the ties that develop (literally or not). Down the line, relocation is a possibility you may want to consider.

Are you open to life-changing - and changing lives?

Me

I love arts and culture; enjoy reading and writing; and like to discuss films and literature. I have strong opinions but consider myself flexible, take pleasure in talking about existential subjects while also partaking in light-hearted moments. A healthy bond is built on trust and balance; It's nice to be with someone you can be serious and have fun with at the same time.

A perfectionist, I am strict and demanding, can be quite the disciplinarian, and work best with either a girl who knows who she is and what she wants or someone looking to develop a better structure in her life. Your words will be of utmost importance, and I will hold you to what you say.

I intend to listen, get to know, and play an active role in guiding you to become both the best version of yourself and the kind of woman I want by my side. Beyond BDSM, the softer side of things strongly appeals to me. Should we build a relationship, I wish for a traditional, loving, highly sexual, and D/s-based bond.

you

I'm looking for a kind, intelligent, and beautiful girl who cares about the world and those who live in it. Someone who enjoys taking care of her body but favors even more cultivating her mind and soul. All the better if she likes reading novels and short stories, watching arthouse films, and visiting museums and art galleries around the world.

Heart and humanity matter most, but physical appearance is also important to me. I favor traditional beauty standards and I am drawn to women who are height-weight proportionate, perhaps with lovely curves on a slim frame, but ideally petite, on the slimmer and fitter side of things.

While I hope for maturity and self-reflection, that does not always come with age. Youthful exuberance can be most appealing as well. I care more for your essence and look for a cultured, confident, smart, physically active, sensitive, empathetic, beautiful, sexy, warm, and cheerful girl. For all I care, you could be barely 18 or twice as old.

Us

I ask for integrity, honesty, kindness, sincerity, loyalty, faithfulness, and obedience. To these core values I add respect and empathy; those are a must for us both at all times: before, during, and even after anything that may develop between us. Let’s become friends, lovers, and true partners who care deeply for and immensely enjoy each other's company.

Kink-wise, I favor discipline, physically demanding tasks and control, love public humiliation, dabble in light bondage, enjoy dishing out a good spanking now and then, like to be playful and adventurous and vary things, going from primal to sensuous, raw and aggressive to soft and gentle. I intend to push you beyond what you have known.

Hopefully we share the aforementioned appreciation for arts and culture. I like to indulge in the finer things of life, while caring more about experiences than status, luxury, and possessions. Love to travel, too. Shall we plan our first trip together? The world is endless and so are the possibilities it offers.

be Mine

Find your bliss in my happiness, devote yourself to me, and let's find out if we are meant to be so we create our own personal slice of heaven. Even from afar – if only at first – I know how to be creative and physical barriers should pose no obstacle to the many thrills we can enjoy together.

Should you be looking for long-term, I require that you accept me being involved with other women while you devote yourself solely to me. While these circumstances may prove atypical, I trust you'd find our relationship quite rewarding and conducive to your happiness, regardless.

You've come all the way here

Come in

Take that step forward.

Tell me about yourself and your everyday life. Let's get to know each other as if we had met at a museum, in a bookstore or a coffeehouse. Send a picture or two with your first message so we get that out of the way. Rest assured, I'll answer in kind. And let's explore those exciting, unexpected possibilities.

Shall we make beautiful music together?