Hi! My name is Amara. I’m 20 and female. I’m currently a college student about to finish her fourth semester of college. This is not my first post, but if you've never seen my ad before here we go!

In March 2020, I was told by a friend of mine how submissive I acted because I always wanted to please everyone. Well this was right before COVID hit, I ended up with ALOT of time to do research and learn about the sexual side of being submissive. It was through reading erotica that I found I wanted to participate as well.

Over the last two and half years of searching, I've had a lot of fun, and I would say I'm definitely beyond the beginner's stage of BDSM. I have some experience under my belt. I'm not an infant anymore, and I would not like to be treated like one. I am, however, ready to find a bit of a deeper connection, and while some will say that is impossible with my limits (see below) I firmly believe it to be possible.

A bit about me before we continue: the first 16 years of my life were quite sheltered. I come from a deeply Islamic family, so watching porn and/or reading erotica was quite a change for me. I still wear a hijab regularly and am quite conservative in my dress otherwise. As you may be able to guess, I did not even start masturbating till 2020. School wise, I am quite diligent and get mostly A's with B's here and there. I only have a few friends, but i would classibfy them all as close friends.

Outside of the lifestyle, I am quite nerdy, and enjoy reading and playing some video games while having Youtube or Twitch open on the side. On Friday's, I participate in a local Pokemon TCG league, and I play Magic Commander with other friends semi regularly. I go to a gym regularly for exercise, and I make an attempt at eating healthy (I am a vegitarian). Currently, I am living in a one bedroom apartment on my college's campus.

With the above said, what do I think I’m looking for lifestyle wise? I’m looking for someone (male or female) to inject some lets call it excitement into my life. With that said, I want someone intelligent and curious; someone who can carry a conversation and the relationship if needs be as I am quite quiet once we start. I also am looking for a connection deeper that I have had recently and yes I know that takes time to build. If you are reading this, please add imogen temult to your reply. I want someone to push me as far as they want; in some ways, I do not want to have a choice in several things. Rules and one on one sessions are things I'm interested in specifically. One on one sessions being where you give me real time orders and I follow them. Tasks you give me and then expect me to do and report back on have lost their appeal to me; its not personal enough for me!

My school schedule is winding down, but I am still working at a sandwhich and will be moving to closer full time during the summer. I, of course, am seeking someone who can work around that.

Kink wise, I’ve tried and enjoyed (in order of importance to me) public play, long term orgasm denial, humilitation, and degradation.

Limit wise, I'm still learning, but I do know I will probably never submit pics/cam/audio to anyone trying to become my dom. I’m sorry, but the chances of blackmail are WAY too high, and I’m not willing to be that kind of victim. Also, I know the difference between Hard and Soft limits. These are definitely HARD limits. Recently I've added deep throating anything (terrible gag reflex I'm unwilling to try and work out), food play (disgusting), and window play (just too boring for me).

If you read the above and are still interested, please send me a DM. Due to reddit clearly being in between chat services at the moment, I am only replying to DM's. No chat requests until I request it! and YES my DM's are working because I have been getting them from others. Trying to tell me they not working is either a clever lie or something technical on your end. Bonus points to anyone that actually puts effort into it.

Again I repeat chat requests will be ignored!

If you have replied before and did not get a reply from me, keep in mind I do get on average 20-30 replies per ad, so please if you think I've overlooked you I encourage you to try again! Thanks for reading!