Hi. I definitely stole most of the message format from a previous poster because it was very well done but here goes! Also, there is a fair amount of parenthesis context because my thoughts have thoughts.

Age:

40, I get on well with people from just about any age range so I don't have a hard limit but if you are under 26, we will need to have a conversation to ensure it is a healthy attraction.

Appearance:

I'm 6'2" and skinny (165 lbs). Viking haircut and short beard (think Ragnar before he shaved his head). My style varies from full suit, skinny tie, pocket square, and hat, to sweats and t-shirt depending on my mood and what I am doing that day.

I couldn't give you an answer for what I'm attracted to physically to save my life. Over the course of my life the switch has turned on for just about every "type" under the sun but a clone of someone I was attracted to can do nothing for me. I just know, when it is there, it is there. The only thing I do know is that I am looking for someone petite in height and weight so my skinny ass can (consensually) over power you. Bulking up for me means 6000 calories a day and basically living at the gym and the moment I cut back, I almost immediately go back to my current weight/strength so I've just learned to accept this limitation of myself.

My general interests:

I'm almost positive I was born 10 years to early I am a full time gamer nerd with ADHD. Because of the ADHD part of that, my interests can vary wildly over time but gaming (video or otherwise), binging movies and shows on the like 8 streaming platforms I waste money on every month, and anime pretty consistently stay on the interests list. I hate reading unless it is teaching me something. I love learning. I spent months learning about quantum and astrophysics just because. Outside the house, I like going to nice dinners (Sushi will almost always win), art exhibits, museums, leisurely hikes in the mountains. While I do enjoy those out of the house things, I enjoy them in limited doses. I'm very introverted by nature and going out comes with a pretty extensive cooldown timer.

Sundays are exclusively Sunday Funday (also known as adventure day) with my Great Dane. This is nonnegotiable but you are more than welcome to join us!

My BDSM interests/personality:

In my perfect imagined life I am looking for a 24/7 tpe, sos, that thrives in a free use, fairly high protocol environment. I'm more on the soft side. I don't like inflicting pain. It breaks my heart to see my princess in pain. I far prefer obedience through positive reinforcement & reward to punishment & pain. I will do what needs to be done to command obedience but I will be sooo much happier doting on you because you did such a great job.

I'm very flexible in a lot of ways but free use is very important to me in the long run. I have two very strongly embedded (polarized) sexual kinks. When I just want sexual release, I want it when and how I want it then go back to what we were doing. On the flip side, I have an equally strong desire (usually in a completely separate scene) to pleasure you whenever I want and go back to what I was doing without reciprocation. On both sides it could be a variety of ways but will most often be oral.

Looking For (Vanilla):

As said in the title, my forever princess. I want to find a long term monogamous relationship with someone with shared interests/goals to build a full beautiful life together. Finding another online gamer would be nice but at minimum someone that understands that online gaming is my most enjoyed downtime hobby and that there will be times when I take an entire week off of work to play a game on release and spend 12 hours a day doing it. I don't care if you want to be a homemaker, climb the corporate ladder, or trying to climb the competitive ladder in your favorite game as long as you are pursuing goals and growth as a person. I make enough money to support a comfortable lifestyle if a full time stay at home sos is your thing.

Misc:

My hard and soft limits are basically a standard copy pasta from any BDSM site that talks about limits

I have had a vasectomy. If you have or want children, I am not your guy.

Obviously, relationship progression is discussed and planned together but the relationship as a whole is more important to me than the sexual side and I prefer to build the foundation there first and more quickly while slowly expanding on the sexual side as the core of the relationship grows.

I'm shy about an online presence so I didn't include any pictures here but happy to provide in private.