Hi there! Let me start off by saying thanks for coming. I’ll preface this with saying that I’ve been here before. Unfortunately, things wear off or fade away and connection is lost. I get it and that’s how things happen. So I’m here again to try again.

About me: I’m (almost) 32, bbw, 5’7” dark hair with a sprinkle of grey, single mom of 2. Im a millennial goth, watered down with coffee and dark humor. Gauged ears, tattoos, and piercings. I work in a male dominated field. I’m pretty independent and self-sufficient in my daily life. I’m into many things such as cooking and the art of butchering, mechanical things (I build cars/trucks), carpentry things, gardening, and a bunch of other things that I’ve gathered knowledge of over the years. I consider myself a collector of knowledge and a jack of all trades but master of none. I also enjoy sarcasm and excessive obscure movie references. I like adult cartoons (Futurama, bobs burgers, etc.) music, movies of all types, and true crime with all the gruesome details.

In my sex life I am submissive and masochistic. I’ve been around the block with people that think choking and spanking is what that is and I assure you that’s not what I’m talking about. I have very few hard limits and even fewer soft. I’ve got a pretty open mind and a very wild imagination. A lot of my interests, fantasies, kinks, etc stem from things I lack or have an abundance of in my daily life. I will say, you’d be hard pressed to say something that would scare me away.

About you: 32 or older. And has a firm grasp of what being a sadist is, means, and entails. That’s about it really. But since people like to know more, I typically go for the older men with the dad bod and a beard. Tattoos, body hair, a surly looking type. Piercings are cool too. Similar interests are probably a good idea.

The “No” List: Anything toilet involved (minus water sports) including sticking my face in a toilet bowl clean or not. It’s not my bag. I live in the country and live that life which includes hot button interests. If that’s something you’re not okay with, please save yourself the reply. Don’t send dick pics right out of the gate. I enjoy conversations too.

So I guess if you’ve made it this far and any of it sounds like you, shoot me a message and let’s chat.