Hello! I'm first and foremost looking for somebody who I can get along with and relate to outside of a sexual setting, so here's a bit about me:
I'm a 5'11" 200lb guy with long-ish brown hair and a full beard.
Married to a lovely woman who doesn't have a dominant bone in her body, and is perfectly happy for me to explore my submissive side with another woman
Work as an electrical engineer
Vanilla interests: I love cooking and food science, Indian cuisine is my favorite. I'm all about home automation and smart home stuff, as well as general tech stuff - anything to make simple tasks easier! I enjoy books (fantasy in particular - Cosmere, LOTR, Harry Potter, etc) and TV/movies (anime, drama, comedy, literally anything but reality tv). I also enjoy video games (Pokemon/Zelda as well as some indie or lower spec games) but don't tend to play them that often these days.
I have a dog who I love to take into the mountains (especially to lakes/rivers) and a cat/rabbit.
Kink-specific stuff, I'm looking for a more gentle domme as opposed to a sadist. I enjoy punishments and pain when warranted, but I don't necessarily enjoy being beat just because you want to hit me. I'm looking for someone who can work with the idea of me being "equal but submissive" and not treat me like a 24/7 slave.
Kinks include power exchange/tasks with reward/punishment systems, anal/pegging (especially public plugging), humiliation/degradation, orgasm denial/control (though not full chastity - tried it in the past with another domme and it's too hard to make it work while I'm married) etc. I'm open to pretty much any kink, and generally if my partner enjoys it I automatically will too.
My limits are findom, scat/blood, marks/scars, needles, and fire.
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