I'm a bit confused, or in a dilemma, rather. I'm considering whether or not I should post everything about myself, from kinky preferences to what my hobbies are down to what I eat on a daily basis, but then the post gets so long.

On the other hand, just dryly saying what I'm looking for is also kind of generic and doesn't, in my opinion, show how much I have to offer to begin with, but also doesn't let shine through to you the 'energy' I have in person or when I'm at my happiest. What should I do? I guess writing this should give you an idea of who and how I am, I guess.

That being said, I'm looking for a play partner. Someone who knows who they are and what they want. Someone who won't shy away from what the general public knows BDSM to be. As in, if you want humiliation, then you genuinely get aroused from humiliation, say.

I'm the kind of guy who's sort of an emotional chameleon. If you want me to be nice and cuddly, I can be nice and cuddly. If you want me to be harsh and degrading, I can be harsh and degrading. I'm not a kink dispenser though. I'm not here for your pleasures, and you get to decide everything to your whims. Oh no. I will be the one in control, and I will be the one spending emotional energy the way I wish. Like an actor in method acting, except without a movie or a script to hold on to. The thing where you have power is that you can inform me what kind of energy I'm going to send your way. Beyond that, I'm the one responsible for everything and hold all the authority of course. That means that I'm responsible for your well-being within the boundaries. That if I do something, and I see it's too much, then you won't have to tell me it's too much. I'll naturally adjust to you.

On the other hand, I'm not perfect. I might not know what you want exactly. That means that you should be emotionally robust enough to handle when things aren't as you'd want them to be. The idea is to give me a chance to attune to what you want me to do (to you), for me to get an idea for how to 'be', so that I can control you in the relationship that we have. If you're here for just some meaningless pleasure, I'm not your guy. Although, if that's what you want, I'm open for being booty calls for eachother, but then don't expect me to care beyond how you make me feel.

Anyway. I'm that guy who's going to attune to you, but I don't like standing still. I don't like 'sharing for the sake of sharing'. I actually need to spend that emotional energy, and sharing experiences or fantasies is boring. I'm okay with providing emotional support, but I'm not your therapist. If I extend an olive branch, then I expect you to make olive oil out of it.

Also, I don't do brats. The idea is that brats like the struggle for and loss of control. That's a no go for me. If we're 'struggling' for control, then the concept of manipulating you in a way that puts me at a permanent advantage where I will never lose control is an option, defeating the purpose. In other words, if I'm struggling for control, I'm not really in control, and that's not my jam. Sorry.

Is that everything? I think so. It turned out it did become a wall of text, lol. Anyway, if you want to have some good BDSM fun, then message me.

Love Rhymenthr