i have a lot of trauma i’m working through, most of which has given me an extreme aversion to sex since november 2022. i was in denial about this for a while but i think it’s time to accept that i need someone good who is willing to take the time to make me feel comfortable. it’s heartbreaking because i feel like something is wrong with me, but deep down i know that i’m just still healing from trauma and once i meet the right person, my sex drive and interests will come right back. you can look at my post history to see how i can be when i’m not feeling this way😅
before all this, i was HEAVY into bdsm - i love degradation, C-N/C, pain, roleplay, bondage, restraints, you name it.. but sex is very intimate for me and i need to feel an emotional connection to you for us to even get to that point. this will take time and probably a lot of dating first.
i’m not here looking for just a dom. i want a real relationship, someone local i can go on dates with, sleepovers, cooking together, and enjoying each other’s company - but i’m posting here in hopes that i find someone who is a dom in addition to all that who knows the importance of being caring and nurturing that i can also have the most wonderful time with in the bedroom (once we get to that point).
happy to send sfw pics if you send first!
important to note -
please ONLY message me if you are capable of giving what i’m asking for.
MUST be monogamous, MUST be looking for a relationship - not just looking to play.
i’m insanely allergic to cats, so please be cat-free.
i’m not into very large age gaps. the oldest i’ll consider is 40.
i’m a plus size woman, if you want someone skinny, do not reach out.
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