I'm looking for a negotiation with an experienced Domme or Dom. I'm a switch, but prefer to explore the submissive role at the moment. If we end up being super compatible then heck yeah why not give it a trial run right? But very likely it'll be more an exercise that helps both of us communicate to future partners about our needs.

I'm logistically insatiable, enjoy self-reflection, thinking about desire, and the psychology of kink. And I would like someone who similarly enjoys the process of drafting a contract and discussing kink for the process itself.

I strangely have a bit of a contract kink, half a commitment kink and half the fact that reading rules makes you think about actually adhering to them (without the effort) - so I'm not going to pretend that my motivations are purely wholesome, but hotness is not the primary goal here - print it out and cum tribute the contract or put your Dom-ly dick in a chastity cage so you're clear headed, I don't mind either way. I tried roleplaying negotiation as if it were real once when I realized I enjoyed the idea of relationships more than being in them, but I've never been one for roleplay much and so prefer it just to be a real conversation about our real interests.

I'm mostly doing this because I tend to be hyperspecific in what I want, to the point of power bottoming, have never had a satisfying D/s dynamic despite trying quite a bit, and I'd like to understand myself more (Running theory: I'm either a primal sub that hates orders and just wants rough sex --or maybe even a Domme who is simply not confident enough to dominate right now) and increase my chances of finding a suitable relationship.

I would like someone who'd enjoy leading us through the process, asking and answering questions. Although please note that I very much don't need you to lead, I've lead others through creating limits lists and extensive arrangement agreements myself - I just like being led. (Also with my ADHD I will get lost once it hits 10k words)

We could either write one document together, or do two separate ones for each of us that discuss our needs, wants limits, ideal rules, depending on how compatible we'd be in theory. For example, if you're looking for a romantic DDLG relationship and I want a strict 24/7 Circus Mistress with a side of cold MDLG to represent my motherless childhood (JK I want warm MDLG), we'd probably write separate documents, finding value in each other's differing perspectives.

You don't have to want the same thing I do - in fact, I'd find it very interesting to speak to someone who's deepest desire is something crazy specific like Dollmaker/toy. I will most likely be going for Either someone with desires so identical to mine that the realism might give a groinal spark; or someone with more unique desires that would just be fascinating to explore.

I wouldn't be interested in talking with someone who is especially violent or sadistic, nor someone who only wants an IRL thing. Careful painplay or classy intensity may be alright with me (example: corset needlework), I find things like that aesthetically interesting but not for me in-person.

Very interested in talking to people who are fairly decisive and understand themselves, and have done this before. I enjoy intelligence, curiosity, and individual desire (people with their own desires, not who will adapt to anything just to get laid) in others, be they friends or partners.

If you're interested, please record a short Vocaroo with your speaking voice (as we'll obviously have to call to discuss, I'd like to know it doesn't grate on me as some voices - even hot ones - do mess with my OCD!) and write a bit about why you're interested in doing this: what makes it intriguing for you? And briefly, what type of dynamic would you be looking for ideally?

Looking forward to your message! ^_^