First, I am married ENM (I think that's the right term). Basically, my partner has set me loose to explore this kink because I am clearly desperate for it.

Second, I am only interested in audio calls to start and may progress to photos when trust is made - which takes a bit. I am self conscious af.

If that hasn't cut my appeal in half let me get to my appearance! (/s) I am 5'7-8ish and 190lbs, long brown hair and blue/green eyes. I am on a diet so, hopefully the weight gets better, but just wanted to be transparent that I am not a petite thing haha.

I'm extremely particular about my wants, as I'm finding in my search for a dom. I've had 3 now, all short term and it has helped me find out what I want and need.

I want a connection with someone. I want to form a bond, stronger than a normal relationship. I am giving you everything I am, mind and body, and trusting to to keep me safe. That comes with some major trust and affection. I often get feelings for my doms and things progress to an online dating sort of thing.

The type of dom I gravitate towards is one who I can talk about anything with. Passion, hobbies, sex, anything. Yet, they will always shut me down the second I get bratty. It is in my bones to try and get under a dom's skin and draw out a fevered rage to get my blood pumping. I want that fear. Nothing is scarier than a sudden shift to a stern tone. I love it.

I want to fight and bite back to get into truly primal instincts. I should probably mention my kinks here which are: CNC (I mean, obviously), spanking, free use, impact play, pet play (light), primal/prey, sensory deprivation, rope play - generally the rougher end of things.

I don't do anything with watersports, scat, vomit, or fisting.

I'm pretty new to exploring this stuff so bear with me. I'm trying to find where I fit into all this haha.

I am extremely prone to drop and haven't had much success curbing it, so, if we are gonna play hard, I need the inverse amount of care. It's hard for me to ask for since my pride runs hot, but I've learned it is a necessity for me.

This feels like too much text and still little info hahaha. Outside of kink, I love to draw and doodle, listen to music, watch shows/movies/anime, and play an obscene amount of video games.

Like, really. If you're responding to me, know that I am hugely passionate for video games and could talk for hours about it. I am a MAJOR nerd.

That isn't to say I can't talk of other things. I love listening to people talk about things they are passionate about. It's refreshing in an overly apathetic world.

I looooove sex. I find it's the most intimate connection you can make with another person and it is the best feeling to be vulnerable with someone else. The intensity of the play followed by loving touch? It's perfect. I would love to play at least once a day or I tend to get needy. I can work with you on schedule stuff though, we're all adults. Got shit to do. Let's just try our best to sneak in fun when we can haha

Anyway this feels like so much so I'm gonna cut myself off here and let you decide if you're cut out to tame a wild brat.