I’ve noticed seeking a Dom is not an easy task. It’s a constant battle of personalities, schedules, time zones, needs, desires, expectations, and most of the time only a select few line up well. It’s rather discouraging but there’s also an innate desire to continue the search……knowing the right man is out there somewhere.

Ideally: you’re significantly older then me, experienced in the lifestyle, and have a decent head on your shoulders. You’re confident and charismatic. You can craft a conversation easily and without the reliance on the same bland, basic yes or no questions many resort to in the beginning. You’re not afraid to be yourself. You’re witty and can engage in fun banter. You don’t take things personally, yet can still assert and command yourself when necessary. You know how to use your words to get what you want. Emotional intelligence is extremely hot.

This is very real and is not a role play. And I expect you to feel the same. To start: this will be an online connection. If things intensify and deepen, our means of communication may as well. But I don’t intend to enter into this with any heavy expectations of meeting or video chatting over our heads. This is purely about mental and emotional connection leading to and driving a sexual dynamic. Something to fill your days and expand your mind.

I’m happiest when interacting with those who make my mind spin; give me things to ponder. The right person can send me to a place in my mind that I never want to leave. I’ve yet to find that right person to fully submit to but I’ve been close. I know you’re out there. And I’m determined to find you.

Please send a thoughtful, well written message if you think we might be a good match. There’s a few other posts on my page if you are the type who likes to make an informed decision.

Kinks: sapiosexuality, orgasm control and denial, TPE, free use, light mostly verbal degradation/humiliation, psychological bdsm, teasing, misogyny, mind games, 1950s, power dynamics

Limits: blood, scat, animals, watersports, heavy abuse