TL;DR: 4.5 year Dom seeking a straight, single, monogamous, lifetime kinky & submissive good girl, to build a 24/7 dynamic, built on friendship, trust, communication, love, partnership and lots of kinky sex.

Summary: Hopefully, this will save some people some time, as these are the “Must Haves” that I am looking for from my partner:

• Biological Female

• 25 -35

• DDF

• Marriage & Children

• Health Conscious/Health Focused & Reasonably fit/Healthy BMI

• Full time employment

If you do not identify with these, then, unfortunately, we are not the best fit and I sincerely wish you the best of luck on your journey.

Kinks:

• Anal Play (giving)

• Cum Play (giving)

• Daddy as a title

• Discreet Public Play

• Feral: Predator - Hair Pulling, temp. marks etc.

• Free-Use

• Power Exchanges: Wardrobe control, Purchase control, Grooming control, Orgasm control/denial

• Praise

• Restraints

• Sleep Play

• Some Humiliation/Degradation

• Spanking

• Throat/Facefuck

• Training/Routines/Conditioning

This list is not exhaustive, nor is it a list of must haves.

Hard Limits:

• Age Play

• Animals

• Anything Illegal

• Blood

• Closed Fists

• Diapers

• Forced Piercings/tattoos/body mods

• Heavy Impact Play

• Intense/Extreme Pain

• Permanent Marks

• Pet Play

• Scat

• Puke

• Urine

About me:

Me: https://imgur.com/a/GsVeAWM

I am a 32 year old, single, straight, white, biological man with fair skin, freckles, red hair & beard, and hazel eyes. I am 5'11" & 175 lbs. No piercings or tattoos as well as drug and disease free.

Personality: In my personal life I am a laid-back easy-going guy with a healthy mixture of confidence, assertiveness & wit. I like to watch and observe first before I speak. Think Masculine Nerd. I am a certified Introvert as I deeply value my family and a small, intimate circle of friends. I prefer having friends & family over for game night, movie night, or dinner/drinks at a nice quiet restaurant/bar in contrast to loud venues with large gatherings. I am a plain speaker as I do not like to mince words, but I try my hardest not to be blunt as well.

My primary love languages are Physical Touch & Quality Time. I am very touchy and affectionate in relationships, and I long to be around my Partner, even if we’re just sitting in the same room quietly doing separate things. I love telling, and hearing jokes: the cornier the better. If you can make me belly laugh, total win. I love kids and would love to have them some day. I am not a religious person. I would describe myself as spiritual.

Politics: I am pro individual liberty. Feel free to ask as many questions as you want.

Hobbies:

• Art: Abstract, minimalism, cubism.

• Baseball (#Astros),

• Reading (Almost any subject),

• Camping/Hiking (Been to Big Bend, Zion, Grand Canyon & Bryce Canyon this year so far)

• Comics (Batman is the best superhero),

• Cooking.

• Fishing

• Home Improvement: I'm both handy and handsome. ;)

• Hunting

• Traveling: I am looking for new States or National Parks to visit this year.

• Video Games (PS5/PC),

• Whiskey

• Wine (Reds > Whites)

• Yoga & Fitness. I lift four days a week.

I'm also a dog dad to the world's best Dachshund: https://i.imgur.com/V8TT3cL.jpg

Day to day life: I have a successful career, I love projects and staying busy, professionally and personally. I thrive on organization and routines, so I consider myself a pretty regimented guy. I have my own home, and I am financially stable. I finished Grad school in 12/22 after 3 years, so I’m learning how to live my life again without the combo of full-time work & part time school dictating my life. I currently work nights Wednesday through Saturday. I will not work nights forever, but I also do not have a firm end date. It is just part of my career journey.

You:

You consider yourself an independent, passionate, driven and ambitious woman, you but also dream of relinquishing control in trusted hands. You crave to be with and submit to a trusted partner who will challenge you, and help you succeed in everything you desire from life through the care, safety, structure, pleasure, discipline of a wholesome and loving D/s relationship. A lady in outward appearances, but my obedient, kinky & submissive slut otherwise.

Physical Attraction: Physical attraction is not everything, but it is an important first step. I am by no means expecting a supermodel and a pro athlete (as I am neither of those myself) but a reasonable level of fitness with a healthy Body Mass Index is a must. Nonsmoking & Drug and Disease Free is a must as well.

Location: Preferably in Texas, but I am open minded across the US for the right woman if you are interested in relocation or planning to relocate in the near future.

Age: 25 - 35

Us:

I want to be your catharsis, comfort, accountability and pleasure rolled into one. Nurturing, supportive & sweet, yet firm & dominant. I will never demand your submission, I am patient, willing & able to earn your consent, trust and submission.

KINGTXToast, what about D/s draws you to it? Great question. I believe that there is no greater, or deeper, form of love than that which is built on the friendship, intimacy, communication & trust of two people who enter into a D/s dynamic. It is the most fulfilling feeling in the world for a woman to feel so loved, vulnerable, safe and protected that she is willing to give me the gift, & responsibility, of her consent and submission.During sex, I am a Firm/Pleasure Dom. Once the boundaries, expectations safe words/signals and consent are set I expect submission and obedience. I am very much into good girls, and not much into brats.

I am also a believer in structure and rules beyond sex, and in those aspects, I am a much more loving and softer Dom. I love aftercare, providing non sexual intimacy and affection. I am a HUGE cuddle slut and certified Big Spoon, my pup will vouch for me! Every dynamic is unique, so it's not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously, nothing happens until we've established a clear connection, consent, respect, friendship and communication. Much more to discuss together.

I have only been in this lifestyle for 4.5 years. 2 LTR's and a couple of play partners. That being said, I don't consider myself a pro, nor do I consider myself a novice. I still have a lot to learn, and I would love to share new experiences with my sub as we both learn and grow. I welcome people of all experience levels. As long as you are eager, inquisitive and open to feedback, then we will be a fantastic match as I consider myself the same.

Grocery store trips, dog walks, chore sharing, date nights, cuddles, forehead kisses, you wash, I dry, laundry folding and random flowers are just added bonuses for both of us. You are a priority to me, just as I want to be a priority for you. I am a possessive, affectionate, and aggressive lover. D/s is more than just sex for me, it's a lifestyle consisting of love, devotion, discipline, accountability and support. The sex is just the fun part. I will never demand your submission, as I am very able to earn it as well as your trust and consent. The one constant is that I am big on communication and care, making our relationship not just a safe-space, but something unique to us. My partner is a priority for me, just as I want to be for her. That means I would like to chat regularly and spend time together since this is a relationship.

Conclusion: If my post resonated with you please hit me up in chat or PM's and send the following:

• A bio about yourself.

• A full body picture. (Blocked face is perfectly fine.)

• What draws you to D/s, and what about it do you find the most fulfilling/rewarding?

• Any questions you may have for me.

• And anything else you feel is relevant.

Thank you so much for your time, and best of luck!