I will only reply to real responses and not some idiot who is jerking off and sends me a message “hey”.

Hello, I’ve had some on and off success from this subreddit in the past, so I’ve decided to give Reddit another try.

I’m looking for a specific person. If you do not meet this criteria please do not send me a message. It is not only wasting my time, but it’s not even “worth a shot on your end”.

I’ll begin with myself. I’m 22 years old, white, 5’ 1” and 120lbs. Studying nutrition and I carry that into my daily life. This is very important to me. I am fit and I need someone with the same mindset. During the summers I go home and I have more free time to enjoy gardening and cooking. Whereas at school, it’s oatmeal from the cafeteria. I’m incredibly extraverted and it’s imperative I find someone to match. Organized, outgoing, reliable, open, and honest are a few of my traits. I love cats, fancy club sodas, smoothies, and the golden girls. I am Blanche Devereaux. ✨ Shopping has to be one of my favorite hobbies. I rarely purchase anything due to being a “broke college student”, but I love browsing a local boutique or farmer’s market. I occasionally like a glass of wine and I mostly enjoy my edibles. Love listening to music. Dolly Parton, the neighbourhood, naked eyes, lil nas x, Hall & oates, Tyler the creator, Rob zombie, like anything really. I’m incredibly blunt and sarcastic, I don’t get along well with sensitive individuals.

What I am looking for: First, I do not tolerate any bullshit or any bit of misogyny. I have a feminine dominant personality. Outside of the bedroom, I do not give you permission to tell me what to do, how to act etc. Wanting someone close to my age (30 or younger). I haven’t had great experiences with older men. Someone with a sense of humor would be ideal and l really enjoy long phone calls and a soothing voice. I also reallllly want someone as outgoing as me. I don’t enjoy having dinner and having to do all the talking because my date is shy. It’s just not a good fit for me. Due to my blunt and sarcastic nature- I don’t work well with someone sensitive. Prefer Someone with a good job, it shows to me that you are hardworking and are active in your field. Also, I am not a Republican, and I am non-religious. If you are either of those two things -trust me- it won’t work out. Thanks for understanding.

In regards to the bedroom: There is so much I want to try, but I do struggle with physical touch sometimes, just issues from my past that I’ve had to work through. I have a difficult time trusting others.

Anyways: I would like to try some bondage. During regular sex I love being degraded but also praised. If you’re going to call me a slut, call me a good slut. And understand I’m allowing you to say that. Humiliation - no Due to my dominant nature I struggle with submitting to someone. Do not force it on me, it will come naturally if we are a good fit. I feel I am a combination of a few different sub “categories(not sure how to label them”. I mildly like the idea of being a bratty sub, and a service sub. Stirring the pot can be a little bit of fun, and I’m known for being a bit sassy and I can stand my ground in any argument. Service sub, I have tried in the bedroom. I am hesitant to try outside of it, unless I had some ideas that piqued my interest. Mostly I’d say I would be a princess sub since I love being pampered and spoiled the most.

Nothing intense or aggressive. I really enjoy spankings a lot and I don’t mind if those hurt, but nothing beyond that. I have a vibrating butt plug I’ve enjoyed and I’ve always wanted to try anal (which I’d really need to be worked up to). In short - princess sub, depredation, praise, pet play, aftercare, spanking, light bondage, lingerie/dress up No- TPE, anything illegal or harmful, no 2 girls 1 cup Lmao

Lastly, I will not be roped into anyone who wants me to coddle them. I don’t babysit grown people. Clingy men are not attractive to me. Nor is the constant crying or “woe is me”. I don’t throw anyone a pity party- man or woman(I was in a sorority I’ve seen it all 💀) I say this because I’ve learned from past experiences and I will not go through that again.

It doesn’t need to become a relationship at first. Just exclusive friends. But I will only open myself up to someone who truly respects me.